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commentr/StutterApr 4, 2023
12 points

"anyone go through those periods where the stutter just beats you to the ground?" Only ever stutter I've ever met. Beat back....

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Frustration & AngerMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2023
2 points

My logopedist tells me the best way to overcome stuttering is not trying to fix it or even think about what would happen if you stutter at some moment. Take it as a part of you. If you think about it ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2023
5 points

Well written and thanks for sharing. The one thing I’ve realized is that my stutter is likely NOT going anywhere. After that realization, I have options: 1. Kill myself, 2. Live depressed bc of endle...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideSuicidal Ideation & High DistressMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2023
3 points

None of these for me ...... have tried all kinds of speech techniques (quite diligently) for 40 years of my life... nothing stuck, nothing worked more than few days or few weeks. Only thing that def...

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Acceptance & PrideSuicidal Ideation & High DistressShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2023
14 points

Not trying to rail road your poll but I'd say none of those. The thing that's increased my fluency the most is to not try to fix it. General anxiety reduction helps the most. The less attention I giv...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftStress & Fight/FlightMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2023
38 points

I am mostly fluid now and can say there is a bit of a cruel irony - the more you think about fluency/stuttering, the less fluent you actually are because your stress and anxiety levels are raised. Thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2023
2 points

I appreciate the sentiment and what you’re trying to say with this, but I think this is pretty lackluster bordering on bad advice. Saying “Stop worrying”, “don’t pay attention“ and “don’t care about i...

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Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2023
6 points

According to research 60% of people who stutter (PWS) don't stutter in comfortable situations like when speaking alone, speaking with a parent or to a pet. This [research](https://www.reddit.com/r/St...

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Overthinking & MonitoringMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2023
2 points

Exactly so now for me at work I try and put myself in that same head space. I've actually started joining teams calls while I'm working from home on my home computer so I can use my normal mic setup t...

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Mindset shiftEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2023
2 points

Some times man you gotta say fuck it and go for it. Can’t tell you how many I wanted to turn back but if you back up now what will all the previous successes be for? Go get it done and don’t turn arou...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
4 points

I was an introvert until I became a cop/paramedic. Now I can’t shut up. Confidence is key, don’t let others define you. Punch that fear sh*t in the throat and be yourself....

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Mindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
3 points

Recommend putting yourself out there more and accepting that you’re gonna stutter in front of others. I work as a waitress and it was really bad at first but got better as I’ve done it more. Now whene...

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Hope & MotivationMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2023
2 points

Try to be positive and keep working with your speech therapy. It really worked for me and I work in a job where I have to speak in meetings and cold call strangers. It gets better the more you get use...

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Positive Therapy TechniquesMindset shiftHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
1 points

You must work in the mental health field. Your advice is sound. Anything we do to improve ourselves is a step toward happiness. We do experience various stages in life, some more difficult than others...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
5 points

A lot of the problem I believe you’re facing is actually that socializing for everyone is like a muscle. You not speaking is probably leading to atrophy of that muscle, metaphorically. It’s kinda what...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
1 points

> why don't we stutter in it despite all the difficult situations or even if all people are looking at us? Because these words are easy. Yes and no. Yes, the words are easy but in my opinion, all...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
1 points

>If you believe it is impossible to speak in front of your classmates without stuttering, then this belief affects your intentions Yes and no. For example, if I think "My father is watching my tou...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
1 points

>Good feelings do not lead to disorders In my opinion, nothing is further from the truth. In my opinion, speech therapies put too much emphasis on reducing negative thoughts and feelings, whereas ...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
1 points

>John Harrison portrayed self-awareness as two circles, one representing your true self and the other representing what you show to others, and the overlapping area between the circles represents s...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
1 points

>*The use of intentional non-fluency, or as it is known as techniques that show that we are stutterers, kills within us the fear of stuttering or of people's reactions.* I agree. Additionally, if ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride