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commentr/StutterSep 9, 2022
2 points

Hmm I've never really thought about it to be honest. I'm not that easygoing but I've definitely mellowed throughout my twenties. I think everyone with a stutter can suffer from pretty severe episodes ...

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commentr/StutterSep 9, 2022
1 points

Well I was teenager. At that age everything felt like love but it was more just infatuation. I didn't really limit myself to anyone I just went for girls I liked and had a connection with.. I wouldn't...

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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
2 points

thank you! when you were dating with low self esteem, did you pursue the girls you wanted the most and fell in love with? or did you subconsciously limit your partners to folks you felt would be less ...

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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
2 points

Mines didn’t stop me from having romantic relationships. Girls have fallen in love with me regardless of it and my wife gets the business regularly and couldn’t care less about my speech. Idk if this ...

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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
2 points

This is completely anecdotal but every girlfriend I had growing up (including my now fiance) thought it was cute. I just tried to not let it bother me (I know - easier said than done) and found once I...

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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
3 points

Interesting! I honestly have never met anyone where that has happened. But someone genuine will not care that you have a stutter! I had successful relationships with my stutter and I am married to a w...

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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
5 points

My brothers stutter is more severe than mine but we have discussed stuttering so much so I feel as if I could answer these questions easily for him. Dating with his severe stutter had never been an is...

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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
2 points

I definitely had low confidence when I was younger and was a clingy bad boyfriend to the few girls nice enough to date me haha My stutter was a lot more sever when I was younger but I never found i...

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commentr/StutterSep 8, 2022
4 points

I’m gay but I dated girls in my discovery phase. Honestly I was much more confident in middle school probably cause I never felt insecure about my stutter. High school was an awakening phase when I re...

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postr/StutterSep 7, 2022
5 points

dating w severe stutter?

dating w severe stutter? greetings! was just hoping for some insight on what the community's thoughts and experiences have been re: dating while stuttering - EDIT: not asking as a stutterer myself, ...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2022
1 points

Oh yeah there are times my stutter gets out of control and I just shut down and stop talking. I hate when I get like that because I am in a relationship so it does have an effect on that but luckily M...

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commentr/StutterAug 31, 2022
1 points

Not exactly easy to find friends or a relationship when you have a stutter, from my experience....

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commentr/StutterAug 29, 2022
1 points

Two easily solutions - one would be to find another person that stutters, you would comfort each other and have an easy subject to relate to. The second thing would be to use dating apps so that you...

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commentr/StutterAug 25, 2022
4 points

When I was 18 I really liked girls. This was before everyone had a cell phone. I used to muster the courage to call the girls house phone, talk to her dad, then ask to speak to his daughter. That sh...

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commentr/StutterAug 25, 2022
1 points

I honestly think just do it. You’ll start learning cues as you go along. Start by talking to someone, try and see who’s carrying the convo ie are you talking more or are they talking more? If it seems...

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commentr/StutterAug 24, 2022
2 points

I'm an introvert too, and a lot of my hobbies are solitary hobbies (birdwatching, hiking, reading, playing guitar, things like that), but not all introverts hate being around people. Most humans, even...

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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
2 points

My husband stutters. My main advice is to remember that you aren’t his mom or his speech therapist. With my husband, when we were dating, I had to recognize that however he wanted to handle things was...

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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
1 points

"at your worst" -- you were stuttering! if thats you at your worst then you are a very good person. you were having a hard time, i get it, but stuttering isn't you at your worst. if you're a guy you...

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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
2 points

My gf and I have been together 5 years now. And she knows my words or letters that I have trouble with. So if I just completely skip a word she can fill in the blanks. It took a good long conversation...

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commentr/StutterAug 22, 2022
3 points

First of all, you're fucking awesome Just treat him normally But beware I was in his shoes when my stutter used to bother me Fucked up my relationship at the time I wish you the best though...

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