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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2019
1 points

I can definitely relate to that with people I don’t know or don’t have much in common with. I’m bad at small talk. I can come off as stand-off ish as well. It takes me a long time and effort to get pa...

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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2019
2 points

> It’s hard to say because I’ve stuttered my whole life so I don’t know what my social life would be like if I didn’t stutter. It’s definitely had an impact. It’s harder for me to talk to people ...

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commentr/StutterDec 21, 2019
2 points

That sucks you have so much going on in addition to the stutter. I hope you’re able to get some answers. It’s hard to say because I’ve stuttered my whole life so I don’t know what my social life woul...

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postr/StutterDec 19, 2019
3 points

Interactions with new people.

Interactions with new people. Earlier this morning, I was in the gym locker room back home ( came home from college) and this dude started talking to me and asked me where I study and what my major wa...

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commentr/StutterDec 12, 2019
1 points

I haven’t totally conquered my stutter but I have made serious strides in not letting it bother me . I worked really hard to cultivate the mind set of not giving a fuck. Not in a bad way, but just not...

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commentr/StutterDec 11, 2019
2 points

100% this. You have to believe in yourself first. Then other people will follow. Stuttering is awful but it does not define us. You will find a job and you will make it through this! I feel like the...

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commentr/StutterDec 10, 2019
2 points

Not in high school anymore, but totally remember what it was like. My best advice to everyone that is in high school and dealing with the anxiety and embarrassment that accompanies this disability - d...

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postr/StutterDec 10, 2019
16 points

Looking for People I can video chat to.

Looking for People I can video chat to. Hi guys and girls. My first post on Redit :) So, let me introduce myself. Sergey, 35, live in Moscow, Russia. Married, have a 5 y.o. daughter. Been stuttering...

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commentr/StutterDec 9, 2019
1 points

If I were you, I would've came up to him and be my best hommie for the rest of my life. I've never really met someone who stutters....

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commentr/StutterDec 6, 2019
1 points

I feel you. No, I actually do. It sucks that there isn't any cure but we got each other. Let's talk....

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postr/StutterDec 3, 2019
32 points

There's this guy in one of my classes that also stutters... advice?

There's this guy in one of my classes that also stutters... advice? There's a guy in one of my classes (100+ students) who seems to have a stutter, and tends to use "like"/"uh" and repeats. It's proba...

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commentr/StutterDec 3, 2019
1 points

I would honestly wish I had it like that. I'm terrible in public and just bad with friends and family :( I'm 37 and it's still sucks....

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commentr/StutterDec 2, 2019
4 points

I know exactly how you feel. Whenever if I try to add a joke to a group conversation, all the smiles and laughs immediately stop whilst everyone patiently waits for me to finish. Once it is finished,...

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postr/StutterDec 2, 2019
22 points

I left my friends at the bar and went home.

I left my friends at the bar and went home. I was sat at the table, everyone was around me talking and laughing, I've known my friends for years but I really felt like an outsider. When I did try to t...

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commentr/StutterNov 30, 2019
2 points

I was never bullied in high school. I was in the band program so I made a lot of friends and was generally liked by everyone. There was one guy that didn’t like me but he was the type of guy that di...

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commentr/StutterNov 27, 2019
2 points

The Hardest thing is seeing everyone else talk to everyone and become friends while you just sit there left out...

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Loneliness & IsolationFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterNov 26, 2019
2 points

Hey I feel ya! Shit is pretty bad growing up, but adults love to assume things about you as a stutterer that are far from true. I honestly like to think of my stutter as a kind of friend. It's simil...

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commentr/StutterNov 25, 2019
1 points

IMO confidence is vital, but perhaps not in the traditional sense - think more of it as a healthy dose of self-assuredness. Create a life plan and follow it - I've found that strategy attracts the ty...

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commentr/StutterNov 24, 2019
2 points

Just try to not let it bother you that much. People don’t care about our stutter as much as we do, especially our friends....

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commentr/StutterNov 21, 2019
1 points

An app where we can talk to other people who stutter...

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