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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
3 points

I just responded to a similar question the other day. You may want to look for it. I have a masters in Software Development. Do not get into the field if you think you're not going to speak a lot. ...

School & WorkCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Employment & CareerAdvice RequestsMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
6 points

In my opinion: Both may result in positive effects: * reducing avoidance-behaviors * reducing overthinking or overreacting * reducing panic responses * reducing your sensitivity towards and increasi...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2023
2 points

I 100% agree. I was thinking about making a similar post the other day. The sad truth is, we’re probably not going to get rid of our stutter but we can definitely change our outlook. I was a rough p...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftSadness & HopelessnessAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterApr 21, 2023
8 points

Keep your head up

Keep your head up I scroll this thread frequently but rarely comment, I see a lot posts about people’s negative feelings about our condition. Im here to say our stutter doesn’t define us, it’s 2023 we...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftStigma & Bullying+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2023
2 points

I tap, a finger or a foot to get going. I also forced myself to be confident and literally stared down anyone who chuckled. Speaking in front of 200+ people isn’t scary anymore, I had to get comfo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 19, 2023
3 points

>*"What has been the best book you ever read on stuttering that also helped reducing stutter massively? I'm curious what books you would recommend, one that you feel has massively helped you with s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterApr 18, 2023
22 points

Appreciation

Appreciation I just wanted to take a moment to appreciate how far I've come and everyone that has helped me. I remember being in my room half a year ago, lying in bed hurting myself before Universit...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2023
1 points

>*"Understanding the Speaker’s Experience of Stuttering Can Improve Stuttering Therapy. Top Lang Disorders. Vol. 42, No. 1, pp. 57–75. Written by: Seth E. Tichenor, Caryn Herring, and J. Scott Yaru...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2023
3 points

I think, that your [posts](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/yf9ihh/comment/iu3c8wg/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3) from 6 months ago are very interesting! Good luck with...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2023
7 points

Tips to not forget a strategy: * Practice the strategy a lot in easier situations (like reading alone) until the strategy is a habit * **Having a helpful goal**: making the strategy a habit. To repla...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Fluency TechniquesMindset shiftCycles & Randomness+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
3 points

Fluency isn't the only game in town. In my opinion it's the sisyphean path. You can work towards everything you want from fluency (ease, spontaneity, saying everything you want to say) while still hav...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
1 points

I feel you. I thought the same way at 22. Therapy, both regular and speech, is how I got my views challenged and how I changed them. The path is not easy or quick, but the end result is a much better ...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Seeking TherapyMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
1 points

I live my life how the great Tyrion Lannister thinks of the world: “Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you." I put myself...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
3 points

Youve made multipule posts in the past few days with the literall same idea... Stop the defeatist attidue, its not helping you... Yes its harder to socialize, however you arent incapable of it. You ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shiftFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 15, 2023
1 points

>*"Where's the choice for 'just accepting my stutter as part of who I am and celebrating my stutter as part of my individuality?'"* I agree with you. We should use acceptance and letting go. While...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
3 points

Maybe drugs is the answer 😂. That's great though. I think for me even though I don't want to care a part of my subconscious will still care so that makes me extra self conscious about it...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
3 points

I can’t be 100% sure but I had a pretty intense shrooms trip, and I just stopped caring after that and the less I cared or thought about it the more fluent I became. My stutter was diagnosed to be a ...

Meds & SubstancesCoping & Advocacy
Psychedelics & MicrodosingMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
8 points

I felt like that my whole life. I let the stutter control my life. It wasn’t well into my 30s when I realized that this stutter is only a small, tiny part of myself. I’m more than just a stutterer. ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Identity & Self-PerceptionMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
21 points

Wow... first and foremost that really sucks. I'm sorry. We humans get pretty stupid when we're confused. Stuttering confuses people and what comes next is what we would call a knee jerk reaction - a ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterApr 14, 2023
7 points

We're our own worst enemy. I think that can be changed, you just have to want it. If you want to loath, that's your decision, but I don't think it's okay to tell others they should do the same, not tr...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftHope & Motivation