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commentr/StutterSep 26, 2023
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it's because you are not okay with stuttering, so your brain still is very nervous in the background unconsciously. Also you might have some trigger letters that cause you to stutter, maybe words tha...

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2023
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I dont think we are stuttering simply because it is a habit, but I wholeheartedly agree about the stutterer's mindset. The consuming thoughts of "I will stutter on the word "dog,", "I want that to ea...

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2023
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This is relatable to me, the more you think about it, the more nervous you get. When I just say stuff without thinking ahead, It just flows smoothly most of the time...

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postr/StutterSep 25, 2023
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Do we make ourselves stutter?

Do we make ourselves stutter? Just had this thought the other day and thought I’ll share it. A majority of stutterers start to stutter around the age of 7-8. And everyone just says it’ll disappear in ...

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2023
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okay. first of all you must understand what causes you to stutter, I am sure you do not have an answer to this so I will explain it the best I can There are some people who have a speech disord...

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2023
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okay. first of all you must understand what causes you to stutter, I am sure you do not have an answer to this so I will explain it the best I can There are some people who have a speech disorder, th...

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commentr/StutterSep 25, 2023
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I consider a trigger: * any thought, emotion, body sensation, experience or perception, such as an out of control experience (or perception) I perceive that a thought, emotion, body sensation, expe...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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My brain works the exact same way. Your stutter might by psychophysiological like mine. We place subconscious value on certain words which causes the stutter a lot of times. That's why names, numbers,...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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I did prepare days ahead actually and it still made me stutter for some reason. My brain simply wants to change words from time to time funny enough. Though now I know that i should stick to the origi...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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In your title you said "**The more I prepare, the possibility I will stutter**." I think that some people can't make preparations one day before the presentation (making them nervous on the presentat...

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postr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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The more I prepare, the possibility I will stutter.

The more I prepare, the possibility I will stutter. I know, it contradicts with what the strategy should be. In my case, I would let the brain flows whatever it wanted to spill. According to my presen...

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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2023
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Can relate. when listening to a call recording etc. I get all tightened up and willing to unhear it. It's amazing how are brains are tricking us that in real time about how we spoke....

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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What you just mentioned is same for me. When i go on no fap for more than 3 days, my fluency is like hitting the roof. But when i watch porn even without ejaculation, i feel like i can not focused 100...

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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2023
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I'm not articulate enough to explain my situation to her and she misunderstood a lot of thing and ended up crying. She thought I didn't care for her and I f*cked up my wording so bad that I seemed emo...

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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
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My parents noticed early I had trouble talking early. 2nd or 3rd grade started speech therapy (in school til the day I graduated HS) also blessed to have the same speech therapist still have contact w...

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postr/StutterSep 22, 2023
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What typically leads to a good or bad day with your stutter?

What typically leads to a good or bad day with your stutter? A lot of stutterers say they have good days and bad days. Some people say it's random and they can't explain why some days are better than ...

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commentr/StutterSep 22, 2023
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I feel the same way. Most of the times i feel like i cant think properly and i sometimes wonder if thats the reason i stutter. My thoughts are so muddled. Ive realized that we are so occupied with the...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2023
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Great for you. For me is the opposite as your mother said: **Do not think about what you need to say next.** You don´t need to think about it because you already know. It´s on your mind how would you...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2023
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I agree that 100% fluency is not the goal. Even non-stutterer person´s are not that fluent. We -PWS - tend to be overly perfeccionist with our speech and that get´s on our own way. For what you had s...

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commentr/StutterSep 21, 2023
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Stutter discord server? Could you please share the link for it?...

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