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commentr/StutterMay 11, 2022
4 points

It has for me and I wish people come see me work before I had a chance to speak. Nobody seems to take you serious or I feel like people think I’m lying about what I’m saying to sound good. It’s frustr...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Frustration & AngerEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2022
2 points

I avoid contributing to group discussions even I have something valuable to say or if the discussion is going in wrong way, i just watch them discussing wrong things even I knew the truth, also my fri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2022
2 points

Yes! People at my work are starting to realise I stutter. They're purposely asking me to repeat myself. I know damn well they heard me too. That's the kind of stuff that's frustrating......

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2022
2 points

Exactly! Because I know if I have to repeat myself I will definitely stutter and it’s so frustrating...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2022
3 points

Same. If I get it out clearly once without stuttering. And they say "what"in like, nevermind..... And they think im a dick. But in reality I just don't want to stutter. Shits stressful but were smart ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMay 10, 2022
4 points

(M21) Whenever I go to any place to order or ask for something I just write them on my phone and show it to the dude. I had enough. It's humiliating yes. I just want to avoid the awkward stupid situ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2022
6 points

Had to order food at mcdonalds. Problem is i was talking with my friend at the cashier and he asked me what my order was and i said it to him no problem, but when i started to say it to the cashier it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+2 more
commentr/StutterMay 9, 2022
20 points

For me, this tactic 'worked' for 25+ years.I learned this through fear and embarrassment because I had adult family members who would make fun of me... "Ju-Ju-Ju- just g-g-g-et it out stu-stu-stu-stup...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 7, 2022
9 points

If I was on game show and lost because of my stutter or the timer running out due to a block, I would be ANGRY also!...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Frustration & AngerBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterMay 3, 2022
3 points

Me too. I can't even talk to my own family without feeling like an outcast. You know how humiliating it is when my 5 year old cousin says "Even I can speak better than you" or you're stuck on a word a...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2022
2 points

I read your comments on this thread and i get you didnt want to say anything and why. I honestly have a simialr midnset to you in this regard when im in similar situations. However, you had the oppo...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2022
2 points

When something like this happens with me or any other stutterer, my faith in humanity shakes and tbh sometimes i do wanna go full joker mode and kill them all. Relax I’m not doing any of that. Cheers....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2022
8 points

> "No point - they’ll go back to college and say “Some stuttering motherfucker got me fired” or something" I'd be glad. > Doesn’t matter - won’t teach them anything The unprofessional idiots ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2022
9 points

Just petty. No point - they’ll go back to college and say “Some stuttering motherfucker got me fired” or something. Doesn’t matter - won’t teach them anything...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 28, 2022
10 points

I don’t really want an apology. I think the ginger got the point when I looked at her. I don’t want them to get in trouble either - they’ll be sorry they got caught, not saying shit....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2022
27 points

I feel so bad for you. why didn’t your friends/family order for you? Secondly, whats wrong with the person that said “why did you come”...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2022
6 points

How horrible for anyone to act like that but it is even worse when it comes from our own family and friends. Many families are dysfunctional and it sounds like your family is highly dysfunctional. S...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2022
1 points

All the time. Family members love to infer and conjecture as to what causes or will help a stutter. As someone who’s always been self-aware to a fault, it’s incredibly frustrating when a person—especi...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterApr 23, 2022
26 points

my father today has hurt my feelings a lot

my father today has hurt my feelings a lot i live with grandma but my dad has been on vacation for two weeks and today has been his last day, he asked me for something and i really had a hard time say...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2022
1 points

Sorry, I missed this! If it’s helpful, I think it is helpful to allow yourself to be bothered, but for the right reason. It’s natural to be frustrated - embrace it! However, I would let the frustratio...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride