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commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
1 points

I don't know how to explain that thing but I think it is because of anxiety and low self esteem. Sometimes I feel that even a cancer is better than this because in cancer one can die in few months but...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
3 points

I'm glad to hear that you've come to realize your opinions were harmful and dismissive and that you were open to changing that. Even taking dating aside since that has been covered, stuttering can b...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 5, 2024
7 points

25F, moderate stutter, engaged. I've stuttered since I was little and have never met another female stutterer. I find that it not being as common in woman makes strangers more unintentionally cruel...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & RomanceShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
5 points

I’ve only met one women that had one but I didn’t talk to her that much because I thought she’ll find my stutter cringe or I’m mocking her, kinda regret because we could’ve had a good conversation but...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
27 points

23F stutterer. I’ve never met another female who stutters. Being a female who stutters is an experience unique to us. Not only are we dealing with a stutter, but we are navigating a male-dominated wor...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionShame & EmbarrassmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
53 points

Stutterer 37F here and I've only every encountered one other woman stutterer in my life. Married for 8 years, but I can recall my stuttering hindering my confidence when dating. Especially since one...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionDating & RomanceShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterMar 4, 2024
90 points

Anyone else feel like this sub excludes women?

Anyone else feel like this sub excludes women? I'm a woman who stutters and I struggle a lot with embarrassment and self esteem because of it. I would like to hear more from other women who share my s...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
3 points

It´s a good thing for sure. Not long ago I read a comment that goes like this: I don´t fear speaking, I fear stuttering. Many people think we have a fear of getting judge on our words and sure, some ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
16 points

It is a very good thing, well done!! It took me much more time than you to stop caring what the other people thought about me. In my opinion, this mindset is a huge step towards improvement...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 4, 2024
1 points

I relate with this, I had an ableist teacher in middle school when students were picking groups obviously I was left out because of my severe stammer people thought I was stupid but the project was ab...

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Stigma & BullyingSchool & Academic LifeShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2024
3 points

What I meant by "changing my life radically" was to become a completely different person, physically and emotionally. But thinking about it, yes, as you said, it's not that easy. I understand that mo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & IsolationSchool & Academic Life+1 more
postr/StutterMar 2, 2024
17 points

I have tried to accept my stutter but I still want to hide it

I have tried to accept my stutter but I still want to hide it I am a covert stutter and most of the people around me probably don’t even know I stutter. But lately there are words that I can’t substit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 29, 2024
1 points

I’m 19 and I’ve had the exact same experience. When I stutter infront of others I get annoyed asf...

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterFeb 29, 2024
1 points

I made a friend, but he was a total jerk to me during our first interaction and I don't quite know how to feel about it

I made a friend, but he was a total jerk to me during our first interaction and I don't quite know how to feel about it It's true that we're all multifaceted, with good and bad sides to our personalit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Experiential AssociationShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2024
4 points

I am 21 now . And i also went through the same thing in school ,mainly when i had to introduce myself in class and i still remember the girls of my class laughing at me ,it was so fucking humiliating...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterFeb 28, 2024
16 points

Struggling with stuttering

Struggling with stuttering I hate it when i stutter, ive always stuttered ever since i was a child, im now 15 years old and still struggle with it, i cant socialize or have normal conversations withou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentSadness & Hopelessness+3 more
commentr/StutterFeb 28, 2024
2 points

Yeah it's kinda easy to say embrace it, and I admire those who can, but prob a majority of us just can't, I'm 61 now, been stuttering all my life and I have never, and never will embrace it, I hat...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterFeb 27, 2024
10 points

Yes, we're so accustomed to shame, even self-loathing when we hear that word because of our own embarrassment when we stutter. It's been a defining issue in our life that brought pain. Once you've d...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterFeb 27, 2024
29 points

I'm not afraid of talking, I'm afraid of stuttering

I'm not afraid of talking, I'm afraid of stuttering I really hate it when I stutter. Despite ten years of training (I'm now 18 yo), I still experience it every day, and sometimes it gets really bad. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment+3 more
postr/StutterFeb 27, 2024
1 points

I'm NOT afraid of taking, I'm afraid of stuttering

I'm NOT afraid of taking, I'm afraid of stuttering I really hate it when I stutter. Despite ten years of training (I'm now 18 yo), I still experience it every day, and sometimes it gets really bad. I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentSeverity & FluctuationShame & Embarrassment+3 more