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postr/StutterJan 27, 2023
13 points

For those who are married or in a relationship, how did your significant other react to your stutter and how is life now?

For those who are married or in a relationship, how did your significant other react to your stutter and how is life now? ...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
postr/StutterJan 24, 2023
10 points

tomorrow I start the second year of high school

tomorrow I start the second year of high school I wanted to know how you got through high school, and if you can, tips on how to get along better with friends, girls, and have a better social life in ...

Social & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Friendships & BelongingDating & RomanceSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterJan 24, 2023
9 points

stuttering and relationship problems

stuttering and relationship problems I’ve recently gone from a long period (almost a year) of very mild stuttering, to a period of severe stuttering. It seems to be on and off, but that year of what f...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Repetitions & ProlongationsStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2023
1 points

How did you pull her in the first place with a stutter?...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance
postr/StutterJan 23, 2023
17 points

Life on Delay (Making peace with a stutter): John Hendrickson

Life on Delay (Making peace with a stutter): John Hendrickson Just finished this book over the weekend and man I am about to re-read it again already. The humility and truthfulness that John exposes a...

Community & SupportSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Personal StoriesDating & RomanceEmployment & Career
postr/StutterJan 23, 2023
7 points

I feel like stuttering is making me loss my friends I had made.

I feel like stuttering is making me loss my friends I had made. So last year sept 2022 i moved to a new city for my bachelor's degree and everything was going well for a like one or two months, but th...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & RomanceRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
1 points

Not sure what your specific question is. Dating is pretty much the same as for people that speak fluently. I guess I usually skirt around difficult sounds for the first couple dates and once more com...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Dating & RomanceAvoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
2 points

You absolutely can be perceived as sexy with a stutter! Especially when you own it! I know lots of attractive people of all gender orientations who stutter. If someone doesn't think you're beautifu...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
6 points

I'm 27(f) now and was a serial dater until I met my current bf. All through my 20s, I did the dating app scene and all I can say is that any guy who does not know how to react to a stutter is an emoti...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
1 points

You’ll also get a sense of “the fish in the sea” which can be an eye opener. You’ll probably find that you’re more of a catch than you thought....

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
4 points

Hi Distinct-Heat6488, Big question, and here's what helped me: I went out on a few dozen first dates... most never made it to a second date, but the important part for me was to gain experience as qu...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Dating & RomanceVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
8 points

I barely noticed my husbands stutter when we were first dating. He was so funny and charming it was just kind of part of his charm. We’ve been together for 15 years now :) As others have said, people...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceValidation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
4 points

People that are worth keeping around won't care 😊 Everyone has problems! 24 is a pretty rough time for dating though - a lot of people that age haven't matured enough to be empathetic. Things will g...

Social & RelationshipsCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceValidation & EmpathyHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2023
16 points

Was worried about this my whole life. However started dating and i observed that if someone will like you they wouldn't care about stutter AT ALL. Now in a relationship for more than a year. Just go f...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJan 22, 2023
11 points

Dating advice?

Dating advice? Does anyone have any dating advice for people with stutters? I've tried the online dating scene but I'm very self conscious about my stutter and feel like I can't possibly be perceived ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 21, 2023
1 points

I’d try to find another way to let her know you enjoy talking to her. My husband stutters, and when we first were talking I’d tell him not to apologize. But I don’t think that was very helpful, and I ...

Community & SupportSocial & Relationships
Validation & EmpathyDating & Romance
postr/StutterJan 14, 2023
55 points

Tomorrow, im going on my first date with someone.

Tomorrow, im going on my first date with someone. I would be asking for advice but like many of you i know my stutter and what I struggle with. But if someone doesn’t like it then sod them as they’re ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2023
3 points

I have but knowing someone else out there is also suffering doesn’t make my situation feel any better. I had friends and girlfriends in high school and I was sorta popular. As I’ve gotten into my earl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesHelplessness & AgencyDating & Romance+1 more
postr/StutterJan 13, 2023
13 points

Patch of fluency gone

Patch of fluency gone I posted on here awhile ago, about how I had become extremely fluent. Now that has gone, and I'm stuttering worse than ever for no reason really. So annoying because I have met ...

Causes & VariabilitySocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2023
1 points

I met him on the stutter Discord and then met up in person in the conference and clicked. Been dating for half a year now :)...

Social & Relationships
Dating & Romance