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commentr/StutterOct 15, 2023
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My family is also like that. They are fast talkers and interrupt constantly. They don’t mean anything by it, it’s just how our family is. Nevertheless, it used to really trigger me. Learning to acknow...

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commentr/StutterOct 15, 2023
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See, I think this is the first advice I’ve read in my entire life that I will take into consideration. I’ve noticed that when I speak I am not able to put the mess I have in my head into words, or I s...

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postr/StutterOct 15, 2023
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I've had a breakthrough

I've had a breakthrough I've recently had a breakthrough with my fluency by deploying a new strategy. I want to share that strategy in the hopes it might work for you too. I discovered it by accident....

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commentr/StutterOct 15, 2023
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The more time, attention and nerves you devote to your stuttering, the worse it gets, it's a paradox. Try to be less reflective about it. Yes, it's awful, but you have to live with it. This should bec...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2023
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I know we all hate to hear this, but slow down. Teachers generally shouldn’t speed up their speech because students need time to process what is being said. Show up to class prepared with a good idea ...

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commentr/StutterOct 14, 2023
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I usually took a pencil or piece of chalk with myself when I had to speak in class. I played with it and it helped me to relax. Also I didn't start answering immediately and took time to adjust my pos...

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commentr/StutterOct 13, 2023
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This is what you need to do. Most of the tension is because we overthink the event too much before the event itself. So you should prepare the viva and when u feel you have enough preparation for it t...

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commentr/StutterOct 12, 2023
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me personally it depends on a lot of factors, like if I maintain eye contact with them(usually makes it easier to flow thru the words) but having to repeat myself also triggers word blocks and pauses,...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Cycles & RandomnessOverthinking & MonitoringRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/StutterOct 12, 2023
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Just a little question

Just a little question After you say a sentence that you stuttered through and you say it again cause the person you're talking to doesn't understand, is it easier the second time, meaning little to n...

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Overthinking & MonitoringRepetitions & Prolongations
commentr/StutterOct 12, 2023
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Honestly speaking I feel like I always overthink just because I'm scared of people's response but try to think about something that calms you down when you feel yourself spiraling. Anxiety makes my st...

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commentr/StutterOct 12, 2023
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Honestly speaking I feel like I always overthink just because I'm scared of people's response but try to think about something that calms you down when you feel yourself spiraling. Anxiety makes my st...

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commentr/StutterOct 12, 2023
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Honestly speaking I feel like I always overthink just because I'm scared of people's response but try to think about something that calms you down when you feel yourself spiraling. Anxiety makes my st...

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commentr/StutterOct 12, 2023
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>*"I now can "feel" when I have a* ***cognitive conflict*** *that triggers the "anticipation" of stuttering"* Great! *Acknowledging cognitive conflicts* \[intervention\] could be one of the first ...

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commentr/StutterOct 12, 2023
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I find this in combination with your other post ( the one about cognitive conflict) is helping a lot in my daily speech ( I am a doctor). I now can "feel" when I have a cognitive conflict that trigger...

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postr/StutterOct 12, 2023
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Can't take it anymore, I hope life had a quit button

Can't take it anymore, I hope life had a quit button I just can't, I have had a severe stutter, from 12-13. It's more psychological, and it's like a block. I repeat my comfort sentences like "I mean" ...

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commentr/StutterOct 11, 2023
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Thank you so much! Yea I feel like I’ve been thinking about way too much. Mainly because during Covid I have very limited interaction which is why I think it has gotten worse. Is there anything that h...

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postr/StutterOct 11, 2023
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Worrying because of stuttering and stuttering because of worrying

Worrying because of stuttering and stuttering because of worrying Hi, I am 17 years old and I have been stuttering for 5-6 years. In the early years stuttering was almost non-existent. But since last ...

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postr/StutterOct 11, 2023
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It's only getting worse..

It's only getting worse.. Hi so I'm a 22 year old girl in uni and I noticed that my stutter has been getting worse the older i get.. I've been more anxious than ever and i almost never leave my house ...

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commentr/StutterOct 11, 2023
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I was much like this as well during my time in high school and throughout much of middle school. In elementary school, most didn't care, but in the higher grades, when students became much more judgem...

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commentr/StutterOct 11, 2023
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Strengthen my vocabulary. Its usefull when u want to change the sentence when ur brain starts to glitch on the first try. Also focus on the person more than on my speech and try to make my speech as s...

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