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commentr/StutterJun 13, 2023
1 points

Excellent explanations. Desire is a bad thing when it consumes us. Dissolving my "Stuttering conditioning" and reconditioning myself to be a powerful verbal communicator while letting go of my wise ne...

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postr/StutterJun 13, 2023
10 points

Massive change since last year

Massive change since last year I joined this sub around this time last year so I could vent. I had an awful year and was in an awful place. Last week I did a presentation for a college class and it ...

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Hope & MotivationMindset shift
postr/StutterJun 11, 2023
40 points

a year ago i had a severe stutter i stuttered every word in a sentence and it was horrible but i did some research about confidence and heart calmness and i stutter rarely now and these are the things i did that helped me: (disclaimer im not saying that this is going to fix your stutter 100%)

a year ago i had a severe stutter i stuttered every word in a sentence and it was horrible but i did some research about confidence and heart calmness and i stutter rarely now and these are the things...

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2023
3 points

Come on people, this is a great, high effort post and we need more posts like this in this sub with valid suggestions for overcoming our stuttering. A common thread in these suggestions is to “forget...

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2023
6 points

IMO muscle relaxers will not help and I would be very surprised if a doctor prescribed them for you. Have you tried desensitization? saying exactly what you want to say, not avoiding situations, eve...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2023
-3 points

I already regret posting this post cos of people like you. Yes, don't concentrate. What other choice do you have? When you truly ingrain a belief 'there is nothing wrong with me and never was' you wo...

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Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 11, 2023
3 points

Soo concentrate but not concentrate. Forget you stutter? Sure thanks...

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commentr/StutterJun 11, 2023
0 points

Young people with this problem should bombard themselves with the thinking there is nothing wrong with them and their speaking abilities. What other choice do they have? Tell me. this when I was young...

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Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2023
18 points

So I read through everything you wrote and I think you make some valid points and give good advice. BUT I don't know why you wrote the intro the way you did, it makes you sound like a pompous asshol...

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postr/StutterJun 10, 2023
6 points

Comments from people who overcame stuttering I found on the internet

Comments from people who overcame stuttering I found on the internet First of all, calm down because stuttering is not a physical problem and can be overcome. Of course, it is not easy that's why only...

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commentr/StutterJun 10, 2023
1 points

>*"Now that I know that how can I improve fluency ?"* You stated: "*whenever I am prolonging a word I activiely am trying to move on to the next coming sound that I need*", and also that you focus...

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commentr/StutterJun 10, 2023
1 points

Yes, I agree. What for one works, doesn't necessarily work for others, so we should find what works for us. You mentioned that you are a PhD student. I'm very interested. What works for you, that I co...

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commentr/StutterJun 10, 2023
2 points

Lol when I was 18 I thought 30 was "up there" but I'm getting really close to it and when I look at myself and my friends, 30 is still young. It makes 18 seem like child-age. You're 100% correct in my...

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Acceptance & PrideMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 10, 2023
6 points

Fluency is not a bad goal, and I would argue against anyone who says otherwise. It's not the only goal, though. As humans, we like to think we're rational, but we are still motivated by emotional conc...

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commentr/StutterJun 10, 2023
2 points

Doesn't matter if it's real or not. If it helps you to explain your way through a stressful situation, then I think it helps. The real fix is to get comfortable with yourself and relax before you spea...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shiftMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2023
2 points

You’re 18. You have so much time. I was a complete shut in until I was 24. Like I only played video games because I didn’t want to face my stuttering. As I got older I became more accepting of myself ...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2023
2 points

Yeah it sucks but u get use to it. You can either keep doing nothing or try to change things for better...

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Hope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2023
3 points

Yeah it sucks but u get use to it. You can either keep doing nothing or try to change things for better...

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Hope & MotivationMindset shift
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2023
0 points

The only one holding you back is your mentality. I've done very well for myself and I stutter pretty badly. You can treat it like a disability and let it get the best of you, or you can treat it like ...

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Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2023
7 points

30 is still young, but no one believes it until you get there it what it is, you can let take over your life and cower in the corner, or you can say fuck it and grab what life you can find or do bo...

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Hope & MotivationMindset shift