Young people with this problem should bombard themselves with the thinking there is nothing wrong with them and their speaking abilities. What other choice do they have? Tell me. this when I was younger. Ok this is you. Mayby you are confident in a wrong way, mayby you are not confident enough with some people and that's why you still block sometimes. How do you know? Young people with this problem should bombard themselves with a thinking there is nothing wrong with them and their speaking abilities. What other choice do they have? Tell me.