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commentr/StutterJul 4, 2023
3 points

I started caring less about my fluency in my 30s and it helped a lot. I probably stutter a lot more than I realize, but who cares? It's liberating just being me. I block every now and then, but can...

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commentr/StutterJul 4, 2023
-1 points

I'm all about living life the way you see fit. However since your giving advice I'd like to share some advice and some experience too. 1. Your header is the title of a shitty book. You get no cool po...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2023
8 points

Doing my best with this one. I used to and still do overthink and get frustrated and get angry at myself. But I try it ignore it and look on the bright side as to what life has to offer. Thanks for ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Overthinking & MonitoringFrustration & AngerMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 3, 2023
3 points

I went to 9 straight. I didn't feel like I "fit in" until the 3rd conference. In hindsight, it was because I was very uncomfortable in any social situation and very fearful of speaking. Just be open...

Social & RelationshipsCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Friendships & BelongingMindset shiftPublic Speaking
postr/StutterJul 3, 2023
74 points

The subtle art of not giving a f*ck

The subtle art of not giving a f*ck When you stutter I want you to remind yourself that you literally have a disability and can't help yourself when it happens. So instead of doing all of your introsp...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2023
3 points

as a 19 year old girl with a stutter, i feel like i’ve gotten over being overly worried about my stutter. The last time i did speech therapy was in like 7th grade so about 5 or 6 years ago and i was g...

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Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2023
3 points

Hey m19 w/ a stutter here, second year of uni too. My biggest challenge has just been getting out of my own head. Going to the gym, meeting a totally new group of people. A big part of over coming ...

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Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 29, 2023
2 points

Let me preface this by saying that everyone is different, what works for one may not necessarily work for someone else so I am just sharing my experience. The "it is what it is" attitude is what mad...

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commentr/StutterJun 28, 2023
1 points

Thank you so much for your message! I think most people here wants to feel, think and act more confident. Do you have any tips from your experience, that we can tryout to improve our confidence? For e...

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commentr/StutterJun 28, 2023
2 points

It won´t solve the problem but is a start. If you define yourself as only a stutter, it is posible that you will unconsciously try to be a stutter because that´s who you are. If you broad the defini...

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commentr/StutterJun 28, 2023
6 points

I believe this can occur. I quit stuttering most of the time after entering college. Complete stoppage…except sometimes on the phone, occurred within a year. I believe that getting into a new social g...

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Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJun 28, 2023
1 points

this is so true! that accrued confidence helps immensely. Might you have any techniques/tips pertinent to the issue im facing ,kind sir?...

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commentr/StutterJun 28, 2023
2 points

Agreed! Once I get it our there and say my lil’ joke or whatever, it physically relaxes me where I don’t have to worry what they’re thinking and JUST talk. Mentally it helps me to try and hyper focus...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftFluency TechniquesAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJun 27, 2023
9 points

Here are ideas for spontaneous recovery according to new research. Do you agree? Why or why not?

Here are ideas for spontaneous recovery according to new research. Do you agree? Why or why not? This is a follow-up on [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/149ky5q/comment/jo5tnd1/?utm_so...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 27, 2023
9 points

Just be yourself and if it really bothers you make a joke of it at the beginning. Something along the lines of "if I repeat myself it could be that the point is really really important or I may just ...

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commentr/StutterJun 27, 2023
3 points

Just have fun!! The more you think about it, the more you are going to stress about it. I also disclose before any of my presentations and trainings so I get it out of the way and I can focus on pres...

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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
1 points

Yeah, good question. In 99% of my daily interactions, I don’t stutter anymore. In the rare cases I do, I can get past it pretty easily by just not beating myself up over the small blocks I have. When ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
2 points

you are not alone. I had similar experiences in my life. And I know there will be a lot of that in future, but I'm prepared and I don't care anymore. I just ignore it and it doesn't hurt me anymore....

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commentr/StutterJun 18, 2023
1 points

I thought you don't stutter anymore based on your previous comments? For example, you have commented under another posts that you had a stutter in your 20s and you overcame it once you changed your th...

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Mindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJun 16, 2023
30 points

Stuttering tips

Stuttering tips Working out- helps you a lot. I think a lot of stuttering is in your head. You need a strong mind to have a strong voice. Do not think about it- in a way I find it’s best to pretend ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
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