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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

I know that feeling of being flawed and unacceptable. I was fortunate to have a wonderful man think I was his dream, stuttering and all. I was eventually allowed to feel valued and worthy. I realize h...

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commentr/StutterApr 10, 2023
1 points

I've NEVER dated but I don't think I'd have that problem. I just have this fear that I'm unlovable because I'm a freak. And I'm also terrified the only person dating me would be an insecure loser or s...

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commentr/StutterApr 7, 2023
1 points

Just completed it. The question where it asks if the stutter affects relationships with women should probably be changed to romantic interests....

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commentr/StutterApr 5, 2023
5 points

Hi!! I think we have similar patterns, times when the stutter is not bad at all and times when it’s awful. I wish I had more concrete advice, but I just think that the constant fear of stuttering is s...

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commentr/StutterMar 26, 2023
2 points

I don’t know how severe your stutter is, but I stutter and have speech blocks and have had relationships. Long term ones at that. My stutter has never really been a reason for my relationships going s...

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commentr/StutterMar 24, 2023
2 points

I once briefly dated a girl who had a stutter. It was really nice to fully relax and know we both had it and there was no unconscious judgement or anything. She was the only girl I’ve ever met who stu...

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commentr/StutterMar 24, 2023
2 points

My experience with being a stutterer and dating is, that the use of tinder or other digital ways really opened the world of dating. Before i was lacking confidence to just speak in the real world, b...

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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
3 points

Hey hey, single male here in my 30s. I’m single by choice, but always open to personal advancement in a healthy way....

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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
2 points

I’m a stuttering 38m, and have been stuttering since the third grade. I’ve definitely struggled with dating over the years, but not because people had an issue with the stuttering. I’m the one that ha...

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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
9 points

I am sorry that it has affected that much. I am sure you will find someone that looks past the stutter and appreciate you....

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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
3 points

non-stuttering male here; i believe your dating pool is definitely smaller than average but i wouldnt give up, theres people out there with the appropriate personality traits to handle 10 sec stutters...

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commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
17 points

I'm not so sure stuttering is a problem with finding partners. The girlfriends I've had all said they thought my stutter was endearing, made me seem more honest and vulnerable. They liked me more for ...

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postr/StutterMar 23, 2023
41 points

I stutter, i'm in my 40s, and still single.. because i think i became an introvert due to my condition... 😑😔

I stutter, i'm in my 40s, and still single.. because i think i became an introvert due to my condition... 😑😔 ...

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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2023
22 points

It had nothing to do with my stutter. Although her being cool with always doing the ordering was a plus haha She was the first woman I'd ever dated that wanted me to do the things I wanted to do even...

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postr/StutterMar 20, 2023
12 points

To my fellow stutters, how did you know you were going to marry them.

To my fellow stutters, how did you know you were going to marry them. ...

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2023
2 points

Unfair power dynamics. A 27 year old is more established and experienced therefore it can and often does lead to a one sided relationship where the older partner is just manipulating the younger partn...

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2023
8 points

Not really. Keep in mind that a lot of stutterers have difficulties to make romantic relationship so his experience could be even lower than hers....

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commentr/StutterMar 18, 2023
11 points

Have a great time and congrats on pushing through your fears. I'd just say don't invest too much in any relationship that doesn't pass the(half your age plus 7) test. Sometimes it works out and It see...

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postr/StutterMar 17, 2023
57 points

Guys I did it.

Guys I did it. I GOT A 27 year old number!!! We are county dancing and I dance with this girl 2 times and I said fuck it and I went for it(with a push of course) and I did it. And she’s from new York ...

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commentr/StutterMar 13, 2023
1 points

> Their vulnerability and insecurity just gets me going. And when I’m able to comfort and support them through their stuttering, well, let’s just say things start to heat up. I wonder if this pers...

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