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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
1 points

I’ve not had lasting success from HCRI in terms of not stuttering at all anymore, but I like the tools they gave me. When I practice my gentle onset rigorously for several hours I can be fluent for a ...

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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
2 points

Thanks I got the gist say whatever is in your mind even if other people might not like not people pleasing...

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postr/StutterJul 14, 2023
24 points

Job and life

Job and life Hey guys! I am 29 years old, computer science engineer, been stuttering since i am 7, i have a friend who stutter and always played with him, and then “i copy him..” since them life was e...

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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
1 points

I’m nearly 23 myself and have social anxiety although not as bad as it once was. You’re need to accept that you need help and that’s ok, it will take time. The reluctance of addressing the problem i...

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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
6 points

Yeh, it sucks. Changes your personality. Someone must have done a study on that. Because of my personal nature I made things even worse for myself. You HAVE to define a different self-image than just,...

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commentr/StutterJul 13, 2023
9 points

Everything you said is correct. I used Stoicism to help me with the control aspect it. And the age factor of it too, you’ll realize life is too short to care. I’m not saying I don’t cringe at myself f...

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commentr/StutterJul 13, 2023
0 points

So would you rather keep mulling over something that you can't change or you will make the best out of your life regardless of it ?...

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commentr/StutterJul 13, 2023
4 points

This feels a bit like toxic positivity I'd say: Acknowledge you have a disadvantage out of your control. Work on reducing negative feelings and anxiety about your stutter. Push yourself into uncom...

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Authenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 12, 2023
5 points

Recently decided to stop giving a fuck what people think about me, and to stop cringing at myself when I do something embarrassing. I still stutter but a weight has been lifted and it’s a freeing feel...

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Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
12 points

Anyone is allowed to be miserable. Everyone is miserable at least at some point. When you read comments talking about choosing not to care, be mindful of the tone you read it in. A disadvantage of rea...

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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
6 points

I’m 35 m who stutters Honestly the best mindset you can have is “fuck it”. Once you stop caring what other people think your stutter won’t even be on your mind. Trust me I get it..I’ve had to dumb mys...

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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
1 points

This is the way to go. Live your life according to how you want. Live a life that makes you happy and happiness will follow....

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commentr/StutterJul 10, 2023
3 points

I'm no expert on this because I still in my 30s struggle with anxiety of stuttering and negative mentality. But I've went through periods where I succeeded in things and the only mentality that work...

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Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2023
1 points

Wow... That's a big question. It didn't happen overnight. And just as each of us differs in our stutters and our fluencies, I expect my process / path differs as well. As such, none of this is gospel...

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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2023
2 points

How did you internalize this, I have no doubt in what you're saying, but how did you come to believe it?...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

Wow, this was an interesting post. Some of the things you're experiencing I don't think I've had to deal with, atleast to your extent. I hope your able to experience the joys of life, because you def...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

I am 24M . There are lots more activities we have to control ourselves . Try to concentrate on those . Be happy and Be strong. Learn a new skill...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

You hit the nail on the head mate, focus on yourself and what you can control. Don't worry about what you cant control. It will get better :)...

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commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

But the question is how do you bring about an introspective shift in yourself. I don't consider it to be an easy task....

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 8, 2023
3 points

Thank you for taking the time to give me same tips, like you I also faund that knowing to get confortable in the unconfortable situation help to reduce the stutter, but it's very difficoult to do that...

Coping & Advocacy
Mindset shiftSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries