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commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2016
1 points

If you were stuttering to pretend some sort of mental deficiency or to imply a link between the two, then maybe. Otherwise, no, not really. Sorry, guess you'll have to go through the experience....

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2016
4 points

I just don't think you'd be able to recreate the feelings of anxiety that come from blocking or stuttering. I'd be pretty peeved if someone was pretending to stutter to me while I was at work. There...

Therapy & ProfessionalCoping & Advocacy
Assistive DevicesVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2016
6 points

That's some good rationalization to get out of this unfamiliar and scary assignment ;-). How can you expect us to do certain things if you aren't willing to walk that path yourself, just for the empat...

Community & SupportSchool & Work
Validation & EmpathySchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2016
1 points

Sometimes I really appreciate when people guess. If it's correct I get a huge relief. I never get offended if they don't....

Identity & Disability
Acceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2016
1 points

Yes, all the time. It's one of the most frustrating things about my stutter imo. I usually remedy it by using a word/phrase that's easy to say before my name (e.g., "my name is so-and-so" or "it's so-...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2016
1 points

Usually I just try to relax. Put on some good music, read a book. When I was a kid I would go and talk to my pet. I don't really stutter when I'm alone or talk to animals so it was nice to just be abl...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Experiential AssociationMindfulness & Breathing
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2016
1 points

I do this as well. While I may not be fluent everytime, the confidence puts me in a better state of mind. ...

Emotional Experience
Hope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2016
1 points

All the fucking time....

commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2016
2 points

I think we all do, brother. That feeling when a room is introducing themselves and you're anxiously awaiting it to be your turn so you can struggle to say the name you've only had your entire life an...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterFeb 22, 2016
2 points

I've had a lot of problems saying my name to people in my past. Jesus sometimes it was just horrible, specially in highschool. I've overcame that by using this one technique that I have been using wh...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Feared Words & NamesFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2016
1 points

Yes and it's really frustrating, especially when meeting new people. Not the best first impression if you have a speech block for like 3 sec after they ask you for your name. Just "wtf" faces all arou...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2016
2 points

I'm in a fraternity and have a stutter, and all of my brothers are aware of that and it's not a big deal at all. Don't worry about your stutter separating you from fitting in or anything like that; on...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2016
1 points

Yes! I've been trying so hard to promote this mindset for the past few years. Good for you, welcome to the club!...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2016
4 points

Comes down to this, either you find a fit in a fraternity or you don't. Stutter aside, that's true for any guy rushing. Don't force it, and if brothers from one are giving you shit over it, they ...

School & Work
Employment & Career
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2016
1 points

We all do - the thought is that our name belongs to us..we're not able to substitute another word to replace it or escape the situation. You have to say your name, one way or another. I usually end ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2016
1 points

Woah my parents also tried to get me a speech easy but I said no because it didn't really help and I didn't want it to look like I also had hearing impairments if someone ever saw it... And it's super...

Therapy & Professional
Assistive Devices
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2016
1 points

Hi! New here. Life long stutterer checking in. My name starts with a vowel. Vowels are my kryptonite. I firmly introduce myself first. The worst is "I'm sorry what's your name again". Dammit, you s...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2016
2 points

Before I went off to college I was the same way as you. In high school no one carried about my stutter I was fine with it. Going off to college I was scared and didn't want to stand out. For years my ...

Therapy & ProfessionalIdentity & Disability
Assistive DevicesAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2016
2 points

Haha that's awesome...

commentr/StutterFeb 21, 2016
6 points

Yup my pledge name was Remix! You will be fine have fun with it. ...