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commentr/StutterApr 21, 2024
2 points

Yes had the same experience recently as well. I think we have similar timelines. I am 26M and this is my 12th year stuttering. Before that I don't remember stuttering bit I used to be anxious when spe...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Helplessness & AgencyBlocks & StoppagesRepetitions & Prolongations+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 21, 2024
3 points

i didnt understand your question, i hope it's possible to reconstruct our brain circuits by preventing freezes and learning other ways to speak...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterApr 21, 2024
1 points

Have you REALLY tried hard to separate the freeze effect in stuttering?

Have you REALLY tried hard to separate the freeze effect in stuttering? To make the question clearer.. **I don't mean** speech therapy or reducing (social) anxiety **I don't mean** stuttering (becaus...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesTrauma & PsychologicalHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2024
6 points

I used to work as an appointment setter at a call center but I was lay off yesterday because I didn't hit the quota they want me to do cause I stutter and stammer...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 20, 2024
3 points

Bro like you're talking about me, I stuttered since I remember myself, but when I went to university where I should talk with new people each time and I should face the other world it increased, even ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Helplessness & AgencySadness & HopelessnessOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2024
8 points

I just can't quit because I don't have another job lined up. If I get another job next month, I'd submit my resignation letter immediately. But really it makes job harder when you feel like you don...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 18, 2024
2 points

I had a similar day today at work. It was not an interview but just situations that wanted me to speak my mind out and intervene. I was just an idiot and i could tell some people have already started ...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment+1 more
postr/StutterApr 17, 2024
1 points

I don't know how to fix my life

I don't know how to fix my life I graduated from university and I didn't try to find a job with my diploma because of fear of my stuttering. I lost that chance anyway. Since I was free, I was helpin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentHelplessness & AgencyEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2024
6 points

Cut your dad out of ur life until he understands, he will just make your stutter worse if he’s making you feel like shit all the time. Sorry you have to go through this :/...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2024
1 points

My advice is : just give up. Give on getting a girlfriend, give on being happy, give up on everything. You should give up on something to keep the whole thing alive, I don't know if you get it or not....

Emotional Experience
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2024
7 points

I know this feeling all too well. I landed such a great job two+ years ago (still working there now). I feel stunted by my inability to speak at times or use the words I would like (or even pretending...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2024
1 points

I was thinking the same as you when I was 18 and the thoughts are still the same as I'm 25 rn. Don't waste your life be much more meaningful and positive about it. Not a great feeling to convince your...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2024
4 points

Comparing yourself, your life, and or your assets to others, is always going to make you feel bad work with what you have, and strengthen qualities about yourself that you have control over....

Emotional Experience
Helplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 17, 2024
1 points

>*"This hypothesis is not proved beyond doubt as far as I understand."* Yes, I agree with everything you said! >*"This is because one of the most frustrating and painful aspects of stuttering, is th...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Neurological & BrainTrauma & PsychologicalIdentity & Self-Perception+2 more
postr/StutterApr 17, 2024
15 points

I feel worthless

I feel worthless Speech seems to come so easy to people, they don’t even think about the words they say. They can talk and laugh and get their points across no problem. I wish I could be like them, I...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyShame & EmbarrassmentFriendships & Belonging+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2024
1 points

Hey bro, Thanks for opening up about what you're going through. Really. It takes guts to lay it all out there like that. I totally get where you're coming from with the anxiety and the struggle to ...

Community & SupportIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. MaskingHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterApr 16, 2024
6 points

Probably the only good thing about it is that it is forcing me to be courageous. But still I tend to chicken out and choose the easy path or avoid speaking if I can, so my courage is not transferring ...

Emotional Experience
Hope & MotivationHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterApr 16, 2024
8 points

I Tired Of How My Life Is & Need Some Advice

I Tired Of How My Life Is & Need Some Advice I physically can’t continue life like this anymore. Although I’m doing quite decent at University, I keep getting into depressive slumps that tank my perfo...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Helplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging+2 more
postr/StutterApr 16, 2024
5 points

Struggling In new workplace

Struggling In new workplace I recently started a new job, one of which I was really excited about at first until it’s now slowly been replaced with dread. I have a mild stutter, I’ve “managed” it my ...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Energy & Biological RhythmsPhysical TensionAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterApr 16, 2024
1 points

This is it, My Final Attempt At Life. I Call It My Contract Of Death

This is it, My Final Attempt At Life. I Call It My Contract Of Death Being who gave life to existence, before the womb and before I had thought. Please be the judge and the reminder to seek a swift en...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressHelplessness & AgencyAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more