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postr/StutterJul 29, 2023
3 points

Discord/ voice chat

Discord/ voice chat Hey everyone is there a discord group where we can talk practice public speaking and hear from one another, it can be therapeutic but also a safe talking zone....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesFluency TechniquesPublic Speaking
postr/StutterJul 28, 2023
9 points

Time to let go

Time to let go So I haven't been active on this subreddit for quite a while and I'm sure many others have too but I wanna share something before big changes start occurring in my life for the good or ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2023
2 points

Perhaps admit you stutter and sometimes you struggle on your name? The best answer for you is the one which probably frightens you most but you know you'll grow by doing it (give a fake name won't do ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2023
1 points

I don't even give them my real name because I stutter the hardest on my name. I give them my initial instead....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 27, 2023
1 points

Yea it’s pretty much as you say, although maybe a bit more specific. I really only ever stutter with consonants at the beginning of a word, or in some rare situations a non consonant at the beginning...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesCycles & Randomness
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2023
1 points

Us man us, my stutter has been just growing from last few years along with my anxiety, and now I have started stuttering by myself too and I have no Idea what should I do to stop it :')...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionCycles & Randomness
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2023
1 points

I think you missed that I actually am stuttering by myself. I never used to, but my stutter has gotten worse recently and now I will even do it by myself....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesCycles & Randomness
postr/StutterJul 26, 2023
3 points

I need help!

I need help! Hey! I have a stuttering problem. For some reason i struggle and can’t say words that start with “kr” and “gr” unless i’m already in a sentence. This doesn’t happen if I’m speaking withou...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 23, 2023
1 points

Yes, when I am angry I am 100% fluent. I had problem with my name in the past by over time it disappeared. However, I still have a problem with one or 2 words. One was in my old address. But only whe...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Stress & Fight/FlightFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 20, 2023
3 points

I agree with you that we appoint a value to a feared word. As you already pointed out, a value of fear or distrust that we won't say it correctly or can't say and might get stuck. So one could say tha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2023
3 points

It seems to me that you paid a lot of attention to your speech at that moment. I don't know if when you spoke slowly, you were thinking about the words accompanied by some feeling. The issue of words...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2023
3 points

For me personally it’s always when I’m expected to know the answer! Like my name etc. where as if I’m rambling nonsense it just flows...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2023
1 points

That guy probably hated his job 😂😂😂 jeez. Maybe you were really contemplating if you wanted beans?? Hahah that made me giggle cos that’s happened to me so many times....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2023
2 points

I was about 19 or 20, and I took my friend to chipotle for the first time. We get in line and my friend and I are talking about what we are going to get yadada, I show him the menu and the bowls vs bu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesBlocks & StoppagesFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2023
2 points

Back in boarding school, one of the junior most class boys had to read the news in the morning assembly. It was my second turn of the year (first time went great). Went up to the rostrum and couldn't ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2023
7 points

Ohhh the amount of times that’s happened to me too. 🥹 I feel you. It’s horrible. Have u ever got the ‘’what, you don’t know your own name?’’ When you pause/blocking. Phone numbers are the WORST 😂 I ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2023
5 points

I enjoy solo travelling and exploring new places. So I usually stay in dorms which are quite cheap. So one day while I entered my room I saw a new group had joined and they came up to ask my name. It ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2023
3 points

It’s alright I suppose. I try to video chat any person I’m interested before meeting irl to get the vibes...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & Names
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2023
4 points

For reference, most people who stutter struggle with their names due to the nature of stuttering. So, you struggle w A *because* it’s your name letter. The same holds true for other words that are...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterJul 11, 2023
3 points

I stammer on vowels too (I am an accountant) in my country the word starts with vowel “ú” which is prolongated “u”. Still, most of the terminology start on vowels, so talking with clients on the phone...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career