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commentr/StutterDec 20, 2022
2 points

Highly trained SLPs who specialize in dysfluency and are PWS but now have enjoyment and control in their speech suggest to *always* disclose in some way. Disclose to everyone, regardless of sex or ...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2022
2 points

Do any important names, places etc start with the letters you are having trouble with? For example: “My name is Ted and my Dad and I just moved from Tennessee. We live on King street.” The speci...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling OthersFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterDec 20, 2022
3 points

Anxiety is hell you can be the smartest person in the room but when it gets ahold of you all of that just goes out the window it’s so frustrating. I think You should go with the idea of disclosing you...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 19, 2022
1 points

Hey! Your feelings are totally rational. People who stutter represent only 1% of the global population. It's not surpise that many of us build negative perceptions about our speech since we're constan...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Identity & Self-PerceptionFriendships & BelongingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2022
1 points

I'm not deaf but I do have a stutter and when I'm stuttering a word I usually do the sign word of it. I don't care if people don't know sign but it helps me get the word out do then be able to say the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 18, 2022
2 points

Do it 10,000 times and realize you won’t die and it’s not the end of the world and no one really cares. I would recommend you start with a preamble about stuttering and having “good day and bad days” ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 17, 2022
1 points

Yeah same. As we speak now I'm going to a party but having 5 shots at my place before hand so I can actually introduce myself to people....

Meds & SubstancesSocial & Relationships
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
19 points

Allowing myself to stutter on the phone or whenever talking to colleagues has really made me realise most people don’t mind it. It is liberating....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Authenticity vs. MaskingDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
1 points

I would disclose it at the beginning of the date: it frees you from performance anxiety and you can make it cute by saying I stutter more in front of cupe girls\boys...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
2 points

YES!! You totally should! And you would do it for you not for her. Because when you disclose to her about your stutter, she would obviously know that you stutter and you would know that. So when you s...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 15, 2022
1 points

Well it is a lot of easier do disclose if your stutter is severe: Girl: it's pretty cold out. You: yeah...am..........i-i-i-i-i-i-i... (i dont need to write it all do i)...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
1 points

In my experience, I just tried to work it into a conversation naturally. Like if I stutter on something, I just said something like “oh, ‘scuse me, I have a stutter” and just moved on. If you don’t ma...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
3 points

If someone doesn’t want to go on a date bc you tell them you stutter, there is zero chance of having anything besides a one night stand. Also, if you disclose, thrn the other person will not be confu...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
1 points

I share this anecdote from time to time. And it is not the same, but it might help: I met a guy through tinder and in the first time we chatted we realised we had a lot in common, we exchanged numbers...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
1 points

I’ll paraphrase a message I sometimes send before a first date: “Excited to meet up. FYI I stutter so don’t think I’m nervous (maybe just a bit lol)”...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
1 points

Openness also implies acceptance (on your part), which is a good thing. Disclose and move on. Accept and move on....

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
1 points

If you don’t know the girl and she doesn’t know you, just send her a text and be like“ hey just a fyi I have a small stutter” and go about your Day. And if she ghosts you oh well, move on and find the...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
3 points

Thanks that is helpful :) I am trying to be more open about my stutter in general so mby its also a good practice :D...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
2 points

When I was on my first (and only) tinder date, we arranged the date, and I told her over text 2-3 days in advance. That way she could call it off (whatever the reason) if she was really scared of what...

Social & Relationships
Disclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterDec 14, 2022
2 points

If you are primarily focused on maximizing the chances of starting a relationship with a specific girl, it may be best not to bring up your stuttering unless she asks about it. On the other hand, if y...

Social & Relationships
Dating & RomanceDisclosure & Telling Others