I share this anecdote from time to time. And it is not the same, but it might help: I met a guy through tinder and in the first time we chatted we realised we had a lot in common, we exchanged numbers and even talked on the phone for a few hours. And then the second time we spoke he mentioned that he was a father of two with his ex. He said he wanted to first see him for who he is, before disclosing he being a father and a divorced man. That did kinda changed how I perceived his divorce and the kids and how none of that would really impact me having a nice time with him anyway. Maybe this strategy could help. Or you could just say it up front if it makes you feel more comfortable. Just tell her that this is how you communicate sometimes, it is not her fault, she is not making you nervous or anything like that and she should just give you a little bit longer to finish your sentences. This is not the moment to talk about how you were bullied, or felt left out or say that you suffered more than Precious or anything like that. If she earns your trust at some point down the line, there could be time for that. For now, just talk about it like you would mention that you have asthma and from time to time need your inhalator. If she is an asshole about it, you want to know it now. And if she is cool, then it will be good to keep investing your time on her. Good luck!