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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2021
4 points

Growing out of it will prob never happen, I'm sorry to say.. I'm 58, had a damn lifetime of this... I've mentioned on other posts, I'd be a completely diff person with a diff life if it wasn't fo...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
postr/StutterJul 7, 2021
57 points

Stuttering makes me feel worthless

Stuttering makes me feel worthless Speaking is an essential part of being a human. Your able to comes to with other people form bonds be close to others make jokes and create relationships. How can I...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
postr/StutterJul 4, 2021
3 points

It’s eating me up how much I’ve missed out on.

It’s eating me up how much I’ve missed out on. I don’t stutter as much, more so cluttering (the words come out faster than my brain can process them) and I’ve realised how much in life I’ve missed out...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterJul 4, 2021
3 points

Why don’t I stutter when I speak in a very low voice, but stutter when I speak in a normal voice or in a loud way?

Why don’t I stutter when I speak in a very low voice, but stutter when I speak in a normal voice or in a loud way? [deleted]...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 2, 2021
2 points

Nice. And even if you did stutter, the most important thing is them providing good customer service and getting your order right....

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postr/StutterJul 1, 2021
36 points

Do any of you guys get immense happiness when you finally say something fluently without speech blocks or stuttering?

Do any of you guys get immense happiness when you finally say something fluently without speech blocks or stuttering? I get this once in a while and the amount of self fulfilment for that moment in un...

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commentr/StutterJun 20, 2021
15 points

I feel the same. I have said "No" to many opportunites, opportunities which are life changing. I'm 20 years old and this is the perfect time to say "Yes" to every opportunity I get, but I cannot simpl...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencyQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 19, 2021
7 points

Only time I've ever really seen someone with a stutter they've been a comic relief character or like a cartoon version of a nerd. Stutter affects all type of people and most people don't want attenti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2021
6 points

I may have problems while speaking, but don’t have a problem speaking up. Mostly confident in myself now. My wife is the shy one and always nudges me to talk to the store employees or random people o...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 18, 2021
7 points

That's very inspiring. Slowly I am accepting this condition and overcoming the anxiety. A lot of times that I thought I would stutter badly I didn't stutter at all, that's so strange sometimes. There ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 9, 2021
32 points

Last year, I tried to kill myself twice because of my anxiety, depression, and stuttering. I can't bear the fact that I can't have a "normal" life because of my speech disorder. People often think I'm...

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Trauma & PsychologicalSadness & HopelessnessSuicidal Ideation & High Distress+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
2 points

Stuttering Adult here with a history of multiple succsssful jobs, including retail and giving tours as well as working at Disney World briefly, with multiple relationships and an engagement, and lots ...

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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
3 points

I completely understand a million percent! I was you. When I stuttered in front of somebody I thought about it literally all day. I’d be lying if I said I’m NEVER impacted by my speech. After so many...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
5 points

I think we all have that feeling in us, i remember when i was on exam(i didn't nervous tho) and then i needed to ask for another paper for my esse, and i kew that i just couldn't say, that was so stup...

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Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJun 8, 2021
3 points

Hi Neraiki, I completely understand who you feel. A big hug to you, brother 🤗. I'm gonna try to assume some substances, that I read could help to stutter less and alleviate the symptoms. Like CBD o...

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commentr/StutterJun 7, 2021
1 points

I think you misunderstood what OP and I wrote. Maybe I worded it wrong, so let me try again. I mean fluency is great, but seeking fluency personally made stuttering even more painful and affected my m...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Mindset shiftAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking+3 more
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2021
3 points

I'm somehow on the other side of your situation OP, I'm a foreigner living in Turkey and want to train in Turkey as well for a while (I study architecture). It doesn't bother me because for me archite...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 7, 2021
2 points

Thanks for your reply. I really enjoy the learning Japanese. And i want to live in Japan too. But right now, If i don't speak Japanese well. I lost all my chances to live in Japan( or study/work in Ja...

School & WorkSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJun 6, 2021
2 points

Thank you very much for answering me and spending your time for me, i really appreciate this, and I'm really impressed if your confidence you really have a qualities of leader, the most impressive par...

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Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+3 more
commentr/StutterMay 30, 2021
2 points

This is the same with places where you can just go to the pick up shelf and grab your food after you order. Its a gift and a curse because of course not having to worrying about speaking is great but ...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Quality of LifeAcceptance & Pride