commentr/StutterJune 6, 2021

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Thank you very much for answering me and spending your time for me, i really appreciate this, and I'm really impressed if your confidence you really have a qualities of leader, the most impressive part for me was when you said that you are the president of your school's student council and you are not afraid of talking in front of the group of people that's really impressive (because for me it's a nightmare), also it seems like you are very kind (I think all people which has stutter are kind, i have been wondering why, and i guess it's because we need to have something to people would talking to us, and loved us, but i can be wrong) also you have mentioned that you need to accept that you have a stutter, and you are right i think i will stop to think about it, when i will accept it, so thank you for this advice, i guess we are all quite common people and have the same problems, now i know it, oh yeah may i ask some more questions please Question 1 •"Have you tried to find a cure?" Question 2 •"if you have, what kind of cure was it?" (For me i tried to take pills which increase your stressfulness and other pills for calm, didn't help) also i tried to do some technic with breathing and slow talking, didn't help) have you tried it too or not? Question 3 •"What is your the most favourite thing to do?" I mean some kind of a hobbies or other things (For me it's mostly the part which doesn't include talking, unless playing with friends in videogames cause for some reason i stuttering much less in these situations i guess it's because i really loved to play in videogames in my childhood and my brain thinks that this is the most calm situation for me that's why i almost don't stutter when i play with friends, but that's only my guess) Question 4 •"Do you have a person with which you don't stutter at all?" (For me, no, no matter who it is, a parent, a friend, a teacher etc i stutter) Question 5 •"How do you get a confidence?" I think this the most impressive part for me, i don't know how is that possible, for example i trained hard to improve my physical strength, i did, now I'm a good swimer, I'm a good runner, i can do 16 pull-ups, i have learnt another language which i didn't know at all when i was in 4th grade, i guess i can call it a success, but still i don't feel that anything have changed, i still feel myself like a lazy stupid guy which didn't achieve anything and i know, no matter what i do, it will not make me feel better, as long as i have stutter, for example, yes i learnt another language but i can't speak it, (only write and understand it when someone talk on it) yes i am a good swimer and runner, i have a good stamina but no one cares no one has ever told me "wow dude you know another language, that's cool" or "you can do 16 pull-ups that's cool man you are really strong, keep going that way" ohh i got a little overreacted so please tell me how are you doing this? How can you get a confidence? I guess that's all what i wanted to ask, thanks beforehand

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Community & SupportEmotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilitySocial & Relationships

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Validation & EmpathyHope & MotivationAcceptance & PrideAdvice RequestsSituational VariabilityQuality of Life

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