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commentr/StutterAug 2, 2016
2 points

Yea Asking an employee a question or ordering food is they worst. I live on Long Island, and don't speak with a long island accent. But if i can tell i wont be able to ask them a question ill lay on a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2016
1 points

Hello. I also have a huge problem talking on a phone. I have taken to changing my voice kind of while speaking on the phone. It probably sounds ridiculous but it works for me. Im from long island and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2016
2 points

I have had a stutter since around the third grade, so class presentations have been a nightmare of mine for as long as i could remember. I used to loath it. And still do to this day (I'm 23 now). I ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2016
2 points

I worked in Retail from 14-18 and my stutter was was pretty bad for the first year or so. Until i turned sales into a game. If i was having an honest conversation with a customer i would stutter. So i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterAug 2, 2016
2 points

As a mother of 2 young boys, I realized I was a self imposed mute due to my stuttering. Their father was a confident fearless role model. I was a wall flower and I wanted my sons to grow up with a mot...

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commentr/StutterAug 1, 2016
2 points

He often gets criticised for saying things a bit goofy but I can tell it's because he does word-substitution. You can pick up on it a little bit if you listen for it....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2016
1 points

Well acting "as if" makes me fluent or at least more fluent even when I'm sober. Acting as if I was relaxed instead of nervous, confident instead of insecure. Just bringing out that part of me that n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 31, 2016
2 points

yeah, people are able to understand and I'm probably blocking for about a 2 seconds with the word umm. Say, for example, I'm saying the word imagine. I would draw it out and say it like "ummmagine...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & Substitution
postr/StutterJul 30, 2016
3 points

I stutter when I'm talking on the phone

I stutter when I'm talking on the phone For some reason I tend to stutter when I'm talking on the phone with people, but not so much in face to face conversation. I have identified the words that I s...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 30, 2016
2 points

That's usually the case with a lot of people. We feel a disconnect with ourselves when we drink. Most likely this means we're care-free and will end up speaking better. So then it gets us thinking - h...

Meds & SubstancesAnticipation & Avoidance
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 29, 2016
4 points

Just a guess, I'd say it causes you to care less about what others think. Sober I avoid social contact with everyone at all costs but when I'm drunk I have this urge to talk to people, it's weird ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionRecreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2016
1 points

Those aren't as bad, aside from the fact that it's a bad speaking habit. But it's important for this exercise to say exactly what you want, just the way you want it. Tolerating open silence and resist...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2016
1 points

But sometimes I say "um" because I really don't know what to say rather than buy time to get over a block....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2016
3 points

In my AIT (job training for the US Army) I was the best in my class, the distinguished honor graduate. The problem with that was that I had to give a 5 minute speech in front of higher ranking personn...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionPublic SpeakingValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2016
1 points

You will eliminate the struggle which might result in more fluency. It won't fix my genetic disposition to stutter....

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Genetic & Family FactorsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2016
3 points

Find a consequence free situation (ordering at a drive through, or asking a question at a mall kiosk or store, reserving a room at a hotel and later canceling, anything where you know you wont be flue...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 26, 2016
2 points

Ok I'll give you two things . 1. Make atleast 10 phone calls during the week to restaurants and ask at what time do they close , and be sure to mention the word 'restaurant' since its your feared ...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2016
4 points

We don't stutter with people that cannot possibly judge us for how we speak. That includes children, pets and of course, yourself. That's when our brain flips the switch and becomes fluent. What a dic...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoss of Control
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2016
2 points

I'd say it's a fear of stuttering, not speaking. And if you eliminate your fear, you won't eliminate disfluencies, but you will eliminate the things that make them awful....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 25, 2016
1 points

Its all down to fear really bro. When you're alone you dont think about your stammer, you dont have a care in the world. But once your outside this comfort zone, you freeze and block. Stuttering in a ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution