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commentr/StutterJul 21, 2024
2 points

i don't have any people problem and what people think about me .. i don't care. but my brain is trained in stuttering......

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJul 20, 2024
6 points

Should I disclose my stutter to people?

Should I disclose my stutter to people? I've never really disclosed my stutter to people I meet. I usually just let them figure it out on their own when I'm talking. I've been thinking lately that ma...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterJul 20, 2024
11 points

I came out to my boss

I came out to my boss So I week ago I started working as a legal assistant for a law firm. It’s a remote job but I do have calls with my boss pretty much every day for training and I also have to ans...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
2 points

When I got my first iPhone, 10 or so years ago, I started recording all my interviews. For two reasons: to evaluate my own speech and to protect myself. Legality of it depends on where you live. Has...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Assistive DevicesHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
7 points

Woman with a stutter here! I will admit my stutter isn’t really noticeable as I talk fine like 80% of the time. My stutter only shows up bad when I’m with family, but in public I would try hard to hid...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
3 points

4. Talking to yourself positively will help you raise your self esteem so make you more confident which will make you stutter less Science shows that when you are already feeling bad about yourself p...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 19, 2024
2 points

4th point - You cannot lie to yourself. Things like "I like myself" makes things worse when you actually hate yourself. But "It's okay to stutter" is fine. Even better is acknowledging that there will...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 18, 2024
3 points

A lot of ppl here are totally encumbered their stutter because they *cannot effectively communicate*. In fact, esp if you have a covert stutter based in panic, your listeners will not know what’s goi...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Helplessness & AgencyHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
8 points

Felt this to my core, I can definitely light up a room, but depending on situation and my mental state at the time will determine how well I do. The second I stutter; I become self conscious and proba...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
1 points

For me if I just say it, I say it nicely all the time but I run it through my mind like do a stutter check that's when the anxiety builds and I decide to stay quite...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
2 points

I’m a female stutterer, too. Our difficulties with stuttering are different than male stutterers. Not worse or more frustrating, just different. Women in general have more pressure on them to be attra...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionAcceptance & Pride+1 more
postr/StutterJul 17, 2024
3 points

How to be better at making friends?

How to be better at making friends? I'm going into my second year of college, and I want to be better at socializing. Sometimes I feel like people will be nice about my stutter, but they don't really...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Friendships & BelongingHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJul 17, 2024
6 points

No stutter with people I know yet bad stutter with new people?

No stutter with people I know yet bad stutter with new people? Does anyone else have this?...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Cycles & RandomnessHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
5 points

I know, it's horrible. I come up with such witty and funny remarks and things to say in my head but I just can't say them so I always stay quiet...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
8 points

Let me tell you that I'm the funniest guy in my family, among my friends, at work. I could be even more funnier if I said all the jokes that came into my head. I don't say all of them because fear of ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 17, 2024
5 points

Fixation on my progress with my stammer

Fixation on my progress with my stammer Hi, I’m just after a bit of advice. I’ve found that I have become a bit fixated with making constant and consistent progress after seeing major improvements wit...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesPositive Therapy TechniquesHiding & Concealment+1 more
postr/StutterJul 17, 2024
10 points

new job

new job heyy everyone! so i recently just got a job at Mcdonald’s and im kind of nervous due to my stutter. I’ll probably have to work front counter or back window and i know it involves a lot of tal...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Employment & CareerHiding & ConcealmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
1 points

Best fir me, I totally avoid talking bout my stutter, find it to much of a embrassment...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
3 points

Trevor McDonald was a news presenter in the UK and he had a stutter, albeit well controlled....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentPublic Awareness / Media
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
5 points

I tried to deconnect my brain from what I want to say. To try to explain it, it's like trying to recover the feeling that we have when talking for ourselves like doing a monologue. To try to disconne...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking