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postr/StutterNov 6, 2016
21 points

I don't think I can ever be successful in life. My stuttering is holding be back so badly.

I don't think I can ever be successful in life. My stuttering is holding be back so badly. I'm writing this because I'm just frustrated and depressed. I feel like my stuttering is getting worse, when ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
postr/StutterNov 6, 2016
10 points

Cringe moment

Cringe moment Usually, in the brief few seconds before I speak, I'm able to tell if I'm going to stutter or not. This one time, I was walking up the stairs to my apartment, a girl holding an interesti...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2016
2 points

Later 50's here and I managed to block words over the years. Most people have no idea that I stutter because of my blocking. I can remember the school years dealing with therapists. They do care, but ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & PrideHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2016
1 points

I'm 18 and I feel the reason it's gotten better in part is because I've been trying to talk more...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2016
1 points

I am at an age where I just come to terms with what I am. I have tried various things in my life to help fix my stutter but it's still here. It's not something I think is endearing, or a flaw that is ...

Identity & DisabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAvoidance & SubstitutionSadness & Hopelessness
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2016
3 points

I find that when I am nervous or talking to someone who is watching my face intently it gets worse. Like people who make a lot of direct eye contact and after they're done talking look at me to see my...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2016
2 points

I've been working at a service desk for a few months now. I have to talk all goddamn day. It has made me care less about my stuttering but I do not feel any happier about my situation. I sound really...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSadness & HopelessnessQuality of Life
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2016
5 points

Yes, sometimes I stutter when I am alone. As far as I know he causes aren't psychological but rather physiological. And there's a lot of evidence that points to it being genetic. There is no "mental b...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Neurological & BrainGenetic & Family FactorsAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2016
1 points

Go on and practice calling some random numbers. Call helplines, call shops asking for information on products, opening hours and things like these. I had to call my municipality's helpline some days...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice Requests
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2016
1 points

I just filled one out. In a nutshell, I practice meditation, yoga, and have done speech therapy. I no longer use strategies i've learned from speech therapy but would consider meditation integral i...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Mindfulness & BreathingTherapy ExperiencesPositive Therapy Techniques+1 more
postr/StutterNov 2, 2016
3 points

Getting over my fear of talking on the phone?

Getting over my fear of talking on the phone? Hi, i've been looking for a job for a few months now. Sometimes I miss a call from somebody asking to setup an interview but i'm just so nervous on callin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2016
2 points

We concentrate so much on words that we want to let them out exactly HOW we want and WHEN we want, which makes us stutter. You just shared a good tip there, and I really want to use it next time I'm t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2016
3 points

Well there's a character in DMC4 that stutters (that you have to kill) but I can't really think of an actual game that has stuttering as a subject. If you want a movie tho there's always the King's Sp...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2016
6 points

This is mostly how my stutter works, when I'm having conversations with people it doesn't pop up so much, but when I'm ordering food or reciting something that I know I can't replace words I'll usuall...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterOct 30, 2016
1 points

You described my situation spot on. Spent years hiding away and I'm fucking done. The constant torment in my head really gets to me. I'm 19 and honestly I don't see myself going much further...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterOct 30, 2016
5 points

How can I be charismatic, witty and charming? What are some specific techniques that you use?

How can I be charismatic, witty and charming? What are some specific techniques that you use? These qualities Ive seen in only one person with a slight stutter, so I know it is in some cases, possible...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionFriendships & Belonging
commentr/StutterOct 29, 2016
0 points

You're going to act your way into better thinking before you think your way into better acting. You don't just choose to take ownership like it's a choice....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 27, 2016
-1 points

A problem my friend had with this is he was thinking faster than he could speak. He had to slow down his thought dialogue and his almost went away entirely....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Overthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2016
1 points

It's completely normal to feel a sense of shame towards these situations. Especially when you want to say a particular thing and it goes to shit. But even people who don't stutter would still feel som...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2016
2 points

I never have problems thinking of things to say in any situation and I'm genuinely both funny and charming. Fortunately I can't speak more than a word without embarrasing myself. At least I have the c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation