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postr/StutterJul 17, 2024
38 points

I like someone with stutter, but i’m not sure which approach to addressing it would be more appropriate. Hoping some of you could help me out to make him feel more comfortable.

I like someone with stutter, but i’m not sure which approach to addressing it would be more appropriate. Hoping some of you could help me out to make him feel more comfortable. I don’t have a stutter ...

Community & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Validation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
2 points

Thank you so much I really appreciate your comment. It’s all a work in progress but I do feel like I’ve made a considerable amount of progress so far...

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
2 points

this has always been a thought in my mind so it’s good to see someone else saying the same thing, thankyou!...

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Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
1 points

I am not a religious person, more of an agnostic, but I like your idea of "let an higher power judge him", in case us as human we cannot do so. Thanks, it's actually helpful now that I remember some p...

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Validation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
1 points

A girlfriend told me it's cute, in case it can help you! Some others told me that it makes me more accessible, like being able to show our vulnerability upfront instead of hiding it like others. Simi...

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Validation & EmpathyAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
6 points

Hey... I know these feelings, I understand and I'm sorry for what you're going through. You are worthy of connection, support and apprechiation and you are stronger than you might realize right now. T...

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Validation & EmpathyAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
1 points

Yeah exactly. Don’t ever think that you’re any lesser of a person. Everybody got their own problems. Nobody’s perfect in this fricking world....

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commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
2 points

You should join our stutter support group discord server man, you can help a lot of people there also :) I'll be also joining it again after my exams (yeah I left it due to my exams)...

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commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
19 points

Worst job a speech therapist? No matter how hard someone studies, no one will understand a stutter like one who stutters! There's a lot of value in someone who really understands....

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postr/StutterJul 15, 2024
22 points

Your worth is not defined by your ability to speak

Your worth is not defined by your ability to speak I know a lot of people who stutter feel that they are unworthy because they stutter, and that if only they didn't stutter they would be worthy of ha...

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commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
4 points

It would absolutely be ok for you to just listen your first time. Many people say that - but eventually something comes up where you may want to say something....

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commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
5 points

I know it’s definitely hard and confidence is hard to come by but you can 100% do it if you even have a sliver of hope you can. I was working in a mental health hospital for a couple months (didn’t q...

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Hope & MotivationValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJul 13, 2024
6 points

I remember those days - I’m much older now - but I remember wanting to talk about it to someone and wanting a hug!! I just wanted acceptance and love!! Maybe try that. Having a stutter is SOOO frustra...

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commentr/StutterJul 12, 2024
1 points

When I said it's not helping anybody, I meant the overalt culture in stuttering communities. Be it this reddit sub, discord servers or FB groups. Every group is filled with PWS blaming everything on t...

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commentr/StutterJul 11, 2024
2 points

Yes, that makes a lot of sense. I think that is one of the major reasons that many stutterers don't want to join stuttering support groups from my understanding....

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Validation & Empathy
postr/StutterJul 10, 2024
5 points

Looking to make friends

Looking to make friends Honestly went through my whole life feeling alone knowing I didn’t know other people my age that stuttered. So I’m trying to find someone who’s in the same situation as me. Y...

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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
3 points

I always talk about my own experiences when people comment on the way he speaks. If you stutter it’s easy to see that he struggles sometimes but for the average person you wouldn’t notice it. When I h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathyIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
3 points

Thank you for this comment. As a 18 year old and looking at the current mindset of todays women i thought who would want to marry a guy who stutter and i,m so happy that you got such a supportive part...

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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
5 points

Please seek out a therapist to help you. ❤️ But in the meantime, and because finding one can be a daunting task, look at my recent post here w lots of links from credentialed speech therapists with ...

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commentr/StutterJul 9, 2024
4 points

Being a fellow stutter, I understand how you feel It's difficult managing and it makes a question about our own existence, but we're here. I think the most important thing is stutters supporting each...

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