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postr/StutterFeb 8, 2017
8 points

Wedding Bows

Wedding Bows Hello my fellow stutterers, so I am going to get married in a few months and we are going to have a ceremony in which I will have to say my vows infront of the guests (maybe around 60 pe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2017
2 points

The struggle is real. We all know it. Fortunately, we live in a time where we can mitigate a lot of our weakness through the use of computers. Texts, email, posts on Reddit. Try to focus on productive...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice RequestsFluency Techniques+2 more
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2017
1 points

Indeed. The majority of tasks that people wouldn't see as anything are very difficult to do for stutterers. I still get very embarrassed in the moment but I don't really care afterwards. Before I woul...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2017
2 points

I think for stutterers like us, speech pathology isn't really the answer. I'd always speak fluently in therapy because I was very relaxed and didn't care what the teacher thought of me. I think some f...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightMindset shift+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2017
4 points

It has absolutely effected my life and still does. I’ve always had a pretty stoic personality, so the teasing and the anxiety that often goes with stuttering didn’t bring my success to a grinding halt...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationFluency Techniques+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 7, 2017
1 points

Oh yeah. I call it tactical fluency. I too noticed that whenever I talked in an American accent or like Littlefinger from game of thrones I never stuttered. Its really effective for things like one...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityRoles & Performance
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2017
2 points

I'd love to believe that good things happen to good people, but unfortunately, to get good things you have to go out and get them. And some of those things for stutterers can be terrifying. I hope th...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Hope & MotivationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2017
7 points

I understand what you're going through. I sometimes have good periods of fluency and then other times my speech is so bad I give up talking for a while. I'm slowly getting accustomed to the embarras...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAvoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2017
1 points

Ordering food. Introducing myself. My name starts with a M and I can't say Ms with out stuttering, and now my daughters name as well which starts with a B. Using the phone is the worse so any situatio...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 6, 2017
2 points

Luckily not but the "Th" sound particularly in "Thank you" has been pretty hard for me the last several years. Seems to slowly fluctuate which sounds give me trouble. So many times, literally uncoun...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2017
2 points

Yeah I haven't been able to completely lose my stutter as an adult. The way I beat it however was through a combination of cognitive behavioral therapy, not giving a fuck anymore and simply talking a ...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Therapy ExperiencesAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2017
2 points

I have noticed that once I started working and talking to multiple people from across the US on a daily basis(large corporation) I've become much more fluent. Putting myself outside of my comfort zone...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & CareerQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2017
1 points

How old are you? My speech therapist in middle school had me go to the admin office, let them know what I was doing, and told them my favorite vacation trip. I did this to four different people. It wa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Preparation & RehearsalQuality of LifeAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2017
5 points

Definitely start small, but the most important thing to remember is that it's going to suck SO BAD sometimes. You're going to feel all those things we tend to feel as stutterers (embarrassment, shame,...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hope & MotivationAvoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2017
5 points

Yes I agree. I'm a teacher and stutter much less than I did when I was in high school, even in college. There are still moments, like when I'm in a new situation, specifically with hard consonants. Al...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2017
3 points

Not really. My letters I have problems with are short A's, H's, and the "Sh" sound. I actually use different greetings to avoid the H sound, which is the hardest for me to say. Instead of saying "h...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2017
2 points

Yesssss, my last name starts with Ca....so when I say my full name, I have to say my first name, followed my an ummmm, then hope I don't stutter on my last name lol...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2017
2 points

From what I've heard, there's no way of *completely* getting rid of your stuttering behavior once you're an adult. I've seen several speech therapists the past few years, and that was pretty much the ...

Therapy & ProfessionalAnticipation & Avoidance
Seeking TherapyTherapy ExperiencesAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2017
3 points

do you suggest taking baby steps so to speak? Making sure to talk to new people every day? Or what was your strategy?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionQuality of Life
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2017
2 points

Just tell them you know exactly what you want to say but your brain has misplaced how to say it. Having struggled with them myself, C's and M's can be especially difficult because pronouncing them sta...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionFeared Words & Names