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commentr/StutterMar 30, 2021
2 points

Stuttering on purpose is one of the tools to show another person and to manifest true self acceptance about who we are. It's not a 'trick'. As the goal isn't fluency the goal is control and lessenin...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2021
1 points

I stutter sometimes alone. I know others who do as well. Stuttering is not purely psychological. The point of voluntary stuttering is not to reduce stuttering. If you use it that way it will end up l...

Causes & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Situational VariabilityVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2021
2 points

Stuttering is a disorder of anticipation. We can speak normally when alone. This is not a physical problem it is a psychological one. My advice is to voluntary stutter. We stutter as we are afraid. ...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2021
2 points

This inspired me to go out last night and use my own voluntary stuttering at a store near me. Spoke to five employees and made sure to stutter while maintaining eye contact and calm. Felt really good....

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 25, 2021
3 points

I am very happy for you ! >So what if there's a few repeats here and there. I wish I had few repeats in my sentences, I would be much more happy and relaxed, but many times I have severe blocks o...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hope & MotivationVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2021
3 points

My number one tip is to challenge yourself, call random hotels and ask if they have certain things there (ie "do you have a spa/swimming pool") or stores and ask them what their closing hours are. The...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2021
1 points

I think key things are to practise keeping naturally calm, eg meditation. But similar to u/TallDarkness increasing your exposure to speaking to strangers and becoming desensitised to stammering is a w...

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2021
1 points

I struggled a lot with public speaking in school. To combat this, anytime a new teacher called on me, id quickly explain I have a stutter, and it’d be more of a chore to have me read than another clas...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyCommunity & Support
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureHumor & Community Tone
commentr/StutterMar 16, 2021
5 points

Once I got to middle school, I would decline to read or speak in front of the class. I told the counselor that doing so was an embarrassing situation. If you can't get excused from speaking in front ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2021
1 points

The you should face all the situations and stutter as much as you can! Then youll reach a point that you wont care if you stutter or not....

Coping & Advocacy
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 11, 2021
2 points

Dude Im 28 years old and I hid my stutter my whole school period. Im so regretful and I highly recommend you stop hiding it, and stutter openly. Only the first and second time will be hard, the rest i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
postr/StutterMar 10, 2021
36 points

I took part in a Drama audition

I took part in a Drama audition My college is going on in online mode. There was an online audition for a play/drama in my college. Though, I do not have any interest in dramatics, I took part in it j...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2021
13 points

It’s the thought of someone watching you that gets to you I believe. I had to record myself reading an intro for this podcast I was in, and ran across the same problem. The way I got over it was to ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterMar 9, 2021
47 points

not stuttering when talking to yourself loudly, but stuttering while recording

not stuttering when talking to yourself loudly, but stuttering while recording Hello, my teacher had an idea, that I could just record an essay at home and play it in the lesson. I thougt first nice, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anticipating StutteringVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2021
13 points

My tips and tricks. They don't work every time but I find them helpful if I'm really stuck. * tapping technique - I tap a rhythm with one of my fingers while speaking and my syllables follow the beat...

Coping & AdvocacySpeech & Stuttering
Fluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & ExposurePhysical Tension
commentr/StutterFeb 14, 2021
1 points

I don't know anything about its physiology but when I was trying to talk to people (when I stuttered before it went away) a few years ago I noticed that I was able to talk more fluently when I closed ...

Coping & AdvocacyCauses & Variability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureSituational Variability
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2021
53 points

Having my stutter for 45 years, I learned that vulnerability is my greatest strength. I choose now to educate, disclose and carry my head high in confidence. I survived a suicide attempt and now ...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Acceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. MaskingVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure
commentr/StutterFeb 13, 2021
3 points

Self therapy for the stutterer helped me so much with confronting my stutter, and not hiding it, or running away from it w word substitutions, deletions, etc., which only work so long, then the substi...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAcceptance & PrideAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterFeb 5, 2021
3 points

I would say that small wins help a lot, they break the vicious cycle of "I can't do this because I don't have the confidence" and "I don't have the confidence because I don't do this". This vicious cy...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Hope & MotivationVoluntary Stuttering & ExposureAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterFeb 4, 2021
2 points

The anxiety and the hesitation is what builds the anticipation and fear of speaking in general. I’ve heard a lot about embracing it and going “into” the stutter. There could also be social, emotiona...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringOverthinking & MonitoringVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more