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postr/StutterSep 5, 2024
4 points

Stutter

Stutter Well I went on a stutter day outing with a few people who had stutters as well and yes mine is not as bad anymore because I swap words that make it easier for me to fill sentences but it doe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
postr/StutterSep 5, 2024
24 points

Does anyone else feel like their stuttering has determined every aspect of their personality?

Does anyone else feel like their stuttering has determined every aspect of their personality? Recently, while doing the "16 Personalities Test," I realized that I might not be the person I think I am...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterSep 4, 2024
4 points

Something I still think about 15 years later

Something I still think about 15 years later In my sophomore year of college I did a 20 min presentation in a science class. This presentation was a big win for me. I stuttered a bit and had some blo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 4, 2024
0 points

UK M29 So working as a detective, I don't have to use the radio as much as i did while in uniform, which was a nightmare at times. I know what you mean about answering the phones etc. I am norma...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Mindfulness & BreathingHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterSep 4, 2024
15 points

Stuttering just makes me mad

Stuttering just makes me mad Actually, it’s not the stuttering that makes me mad. It’s society. Why do we have to suffer over this? We’re not in physical pain. We’re not physically disabled. We ca...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
5 points

It's totally OK to tell them you stutter, even if it is client facing. It's a part of you and you aren't doing anything wrong. When I interview I tell them right at the beginning that I stutter. It te...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterSep 3, 2024
59 points

Blew it again

Blew it again Had an interview for the career of my dreams today after months of searching and absolutely blew it. I tried my very best to take my time and even started drinking before the zoom interv...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
postr/StutterSep 3, 2024
20 points

First time posting!

First time posting! Hello! I’m 30F from UK, I never even thought of coming to Reddit for this, but I’ve had a stutter since I was little, but managing my stutter in a corporate environment is hell. I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
12 points

You are not alone. Most people in this group feel your pain. I would ask: do your peers know you stutter? Do you explicitly acknowledge it to them? I find simply making it a part of your identity more...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 3, 2024
1 points

I always think this but when it comes time to talk to someone who I don’t usually talk to the thought of them not knowing really gets to me. they might be Ben ask if I’m okay because of my stuttering ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterSep 3, 2024
43 points

Fuck other people.

Fuck other people. Fuck people they don’t matter. Normal guy that’s scared will win if he doesn’t care about other people. Our stutter can be heavily reduced if we constantly don’t think about what ot...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentMindset shiftAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
12 points

It's not a stutter, it's an avoidance behavior you've learned to try and hide your stutter. Should you be doing it? It allows you to hide. If you want to continue to hide and don't mind adding another...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
postr/StutterSep 2, 2024
7 points

Should I be using filler words. Example: like

Should I be using filler words. Example: like As a stutterer who is trying to manage it through school I often find myself saying “like”many many times in a simple conversation. I kind of just automa...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
1 points

I get nervous that when I tell people I stutter one day and stutter then the next I won’t that they think I will be making it up. Luckily this has never happened because usually in school I’m never to...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
1 points

Same here. When I write I feel so much more connected and free to write what I want and change it as opposed to me speaking and only maybe being able to speak without an awkward stutter fit....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Hiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
1 points

You don’t disclose for the sake of the listener. You disclose to trick your brain into doing less work to hide the stutter (hiding it what directly causes blocks). Also, if you are a covert stutte...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
1 points

Yeah that’s reasonable, I just have a bit of a different style. Same in principle. I don’t really disclose that I stutter, but I definitely understand why people would want to. I guess I just figure t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Hiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
4 points

I was used to hiding it whenever I could, so some girls wouldn't notice. But now I'm forced to disclose it because my stutter got worse (self-doubt and low confidence are to blame) and it honestly hel...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
2 points

Totally agree. I like my texting self. Maybe we were born to be introverted writers. And creative people. Cos we can’t speak properly. So we utilise other mediums. It’s both a painful and interesting ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 2, 2024
2 points

I relate to this so much. I always stutter when I have to call for appointments, like mother do it for me pls😔...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment