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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2018
2 points

Stuttering probably hasn't gone. It's just evolved into the new behavior. Do you speak this way because it's easier to get the words out?...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2018
3 points

I don’t mind. Please don’t speak for the whole community Instead of pretending that everything is perfectly normal, while I frustratingly struggle for 45 seconds to say a single word.. and you know...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2018
1 points

My stutter is definitely tightly linked to my anxiety. My anxiety is pretty severe. Every time I get my stutter blocks, I try to get around them by choosing another words or using filler words. I know...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2018
1 points

I find that it also "decreases" the akwardness during the stutter as you both can just laugh at it....

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2018
1 points

Yeah I do it all the time. It shows youre not going to get butthurt when someone makes fun of you for it. It automatically stops people from using it as a weapon against you. ...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2018
5 points

I remember joking about it as a kid. A friend found it funny when I had a hard time saying something and then just said ”Eh forget it” with no problem. ...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2018
3 points

Depends really. If I just started stuttering early in a sentence it can be annoying to have someone finish it for me. But if I’m sure the other person knows what I’m trying to say, like I stutter on t...

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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2018
7 points

I do this occasionally but I make sure I say self-deprecating comment AFTER the point of the conversation is addressed. My go-to is “fuck it’s not going well for me today isn’t it? I need coffee” then...

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postr/StutterApr 8, 2018
8 points

Anyone else joke about their stutter?

Anyone else joke about their stutter? Hello, first time posting here. Have had a stutter for like 7 years now (am 16 right now) and I have just become so accustomed to it that I can literally just lau...

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commentr/StutterApr 7, 2018
2 points

It's a crutch.. even when it works, you don't feel good about it (Joseph Shehan). You usually need to tell people to let you speak or they won't stop....

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commentr/StutterApr 7, 2018
3 points

You can just be honest and tell her the truth: you don't like talking on the phone because you stutter more on the phone I got over my phone fear for the most part. I just started calling places ever...

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commentr/StutterApr 7, 2018
4 points

It´s always nice to hear that we are not alone with this everyday shit ; ) I have the same problems as you on the phone at work (I´m a graphic designer). I just can´t immediately say my name or my com...

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commentr/StutterApr 7, 2018
3 points

Definitely practice what you're going to say. Like you, I'm fine if I can substitute words; it's when a word is non-negotiable that I suffer. Practicing helps, though stuttering being what it is, it's...

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commentr/StutterApr 6, 2018
2 points

Great advice, thanks. Definitely do think the elongating thing helps for me. It does sound natural if done in the right way and not quite like Dory haha I think that having stuttered for so long, I'v...

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commentr/StutterApr 5, 2018
1 points

You did the ground work when you were drunk and talked...now I believe it is just to continue what you started. It works for me, as I feel a lot easier to speak when basic ground work is done. If you...

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commentr/StutterApr 5, 2018
2 points

Part of being a successful stutterer is to not care about it. If I'm struggling on the phone, when I compose myself; I say something like: "Please excuse me, I have trouble speaking, one sec" Normall...

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commentr/StutterApr 5, 2018
2 points

That’ll be different with every interest. You have chemistry or you don’t, then one of you makes a physical move. That’s great because there’s not much talking involved! It’s always a risk though. Tha...

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commentr/StutterApr 5, 2018
2 points

I think you got the response you did because the premise of your question may be a little short-sighted. Yes, there are jobs that require more talking than others, but when you get down to it, all jo...

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commentr/StutterApr 5, 2018
4 points

Woah, that's pretty crazy dude. I sometimes wonder if the stuttering is something I have imposed on myself for some messed up psychological reason, sort of like what they are hinting at -- like if I ...

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commentr/StutterApr 5, 2018
2 points

Well if that’s the way you’d like to go, I would recommend a non-client facing job. Look into becoming an account manager for a digital media publisher, for instance. A lot of the times and depending ...

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