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commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
2 points

Why should it be an elephant in the room though ? Why can't they just ignore it knowing it's something he can't control....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 17, 2024
3 points

Let me start by saying there’s nothing worse than being made fun of. It’s the worst feeling on the planet being mocked for something you can’t control. But devils advocate… Your friends are comforta...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
postr/StutterJul 17, 2024
30 points

made fun of because of my stutter 😭

made fun of because of my stutter 😭 my dad stutters a lot so i’m pretty it’s genetic. when i was younger i took speech and graduated so i can talk regularly but i still struggle with a stutter. i’ve ...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & VariabilityMeds & Substances
Stigma & BullyingGenetic & Family FactorsHelpful Med Outcomes+2 more
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
2 points

For me words with T are very hard to say and my Father name is Tariq and i can,t say my father name during College Class introduction 🥲 and my whole class start thinking that i,m dumb and making fun ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesShame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
1 points

If it can help: I was really sad to fail my first serious interview as well. Then, I successfully passed the next one from a different company, and I randomly was able to go work and live in Southeast...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Shame & EmbarrassmentHope & MotivationEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
3 points

I resonate with your feelings of inferiority and the constant comparison of your speech to that of others. I doubt I'll ever overcome this, given how my stutter has hindered my life. So, I just have ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
7 points

I used to beat myself(metaphorically) up whenever I had a block and didn't force it through at the fear of making a weird sound. I thin that is okay as well. A mindset shift is required. We need to un...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJul 16, 2024
8 points

That was actually one of my dream jobs as a kid. Made me really sad when people told me that I wouldn´t be able to do it....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
3 points

Hey, thanks for commenting and reccomending a movie? (i think its a movie) to watch, but i sure am going to watch it by myself... It sucks when other people laugh at a dissability, especially a stut...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
1 points

One of the most cringe feelings I have is watching a show or movie where an actor/actress portrays a person with a stutter. Watching others in the room laugh at that and then wonder what theh must rea...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
0 points

true but you know what i mean, not everyone is cut out for this job we're the ones who always have to throw in an extra two cents just to make sense, and pull on heartstrings, evoke pity and earn the ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
2 points

Hi! Friend. My stuttering is purely random. I have no especially stressful situations but the total randomness and relative minor stutter is very upsetting to me. I think its because of the internali...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Cycles & RandomnessShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
2 points

OMG! Do I feel you. After 5 years of total fluency having stuttered from the age of 5 until 72, without any intervention therapy, my stuttering has returned. I am devastated. The internal stigma is ki...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Shame & EmbarrassmentSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
3 points

It makes me insecure. My female cousin has it worse than me, but I have the one that pops when you least expect it. I get so angry when it happens. As a child, I never talked much. Between the pop up ...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 15, 2024
3 points

In 2021, I was in a recovery room after an ablation procedure and nurse forgot to give me a call button. I was instructed to lay perfectly still to avoid bleeding. I had intense blocks when trying ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJul 15, 2024
6 points

I don’t care about the stuttering part but I do feel my aura decreasing if I stutter in front of my younger cousins.

I don’t care about the stuttering part but I do feel my aura decreasing if I stutter in front of my younger cousins. Just the title. Nothing much. ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
34 points

I have generally had a pretty unpleasant experience with others, people often assume I am incompetent and quite slow. I am often treated like a child and called 'cute' or 'just a bit withdrawn' by acq...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
1 points

Oh my, I had the exact same problem a while back when I asked for chicken tenders. The waitress laughed and said all I heard was “chichi” which led to my friend group laughing. embarrassing moment, bu...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
2 points

>If you have a mental breakdown or a panic attack or feel ashamed and guilty about it every time you try to speak, it’s only going to regress your progress This is the billion dollar statement that y...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJul 14, 2024
8 points

Acceptance doesn’t necessarily have to mean that you stop trying to improve your speech. I guess basically not letting the fact that you stutter bother you is going to make working on it easier. If yo...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Acceptance & PrideHope & MotivationShame & Embarrassment+1 more