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postr/StutterApr 3, 2023
31 points

Worn down, unable to achieve self-acceptance

Worn down, unable to achieve self-acceptance Now I am older, I don't have any interactions that feel like big traumatic wounds to be replayed over and over again as a result of having a speech impedim...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2023
1 points

Yeah I would never finish the sentence because that would IRK me really bad, asking your coworker can help immensely but finishing a sentence for me is highly disrespectful...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2023
1 points

I gotta put myself on mute and let the words work when they want to or not, it happens and get annoying but if I get frustrated that can make me stutter even MORE...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterApr 1, 2023
6 points

It's cool bro personally me I would've act on anger and would've punch the shyt out of the person since I'm already stress on daily task and talking etc but it's alright bro try not to feel bad for yo...

Emotional Experience
Frustration & AngerHope & Motivation
postr/StutterApr 1, 2023
45 points

was yelled at work today when i had a major block

was yelled at work today when i had a major block i had to relay a question from a customer to my manager since it was my first day and i was clueless as hell about menu items and questions surroundin...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsSpeech & Stuttering
Frustration & AngerListener ReactionsPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterMar 31, 2023
2 points

My biggest fears in life are me having to bury my children.. or them developing a stutter. My stutter has been such a horrendous burden my whole life. Pure fucking torture. I would hate for one of my ...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerGenetic & Family Factors
postr/StutterMar 30, 2023
61 points

Stuttered my way out of a well-paid job opportunity. I hate my life

Stuttered my way out of a well-paid job opportunity. I hate my life Last week on Saturday I went to do a speaking test for a interpreter/translator job. By the odds it would be my highest paid job so ...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Frustration & AngerShame & EmbarrassmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMar 30, 2023
23 points

Hopeless

Hopeless Hello, so I had made a post a couple days ago but I feel that it is important for me to just vent on how I feel. This may come out as negative or hopeless but this is the state I am in. I hav...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Sadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & AgencyShame & Embarrassment+2 more
postr/StutterMar 29, 2023
10 points

Mom saying that I didn’t stay in the office job because of my stutter.

Mom saying that I didn’t stay in the office job because of my stutter. I had started a job in the end of January which was a call center job as a service coordinator for an early intervention agency. ...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 29, 2023
6 points

I've dealt with this for years and people don't realize how much it fucks up our lives. All I want is to just be able to consistently say my fucking name & introduce myself without sounding mental...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Feared Words & NamesFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2023
2 points

Try this - start talking like John Wayne (actor). I’ve discovered that I can talk fluently by doing this. You may sound like an idiot in your own mind, but you will be able to speak fluently. I loathe...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Situational VariabilityFrustration & AngerAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterMar 26, 2023
8 points

The longer I have it the less I understand about it

The longer I have it the less I understand about it I know this happens with a lot of us but I am always trying new techniques and other methods while in different scenarios. Some work like a charm fo...

Causes & VariabilitySpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationCycles & RandomnessPhysical Tension+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 24, 2023
2 points

My dad does this sometimes, but it's extremely obvious that he is uncomfortable. I'm actually someone that has a pretty bad nervous laugh, so I guess I get it from him, but when I am nervously laughin...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
3 points

9/10 they won't have that same energy in person, and if they do I'm quick to beat a mf ass for disrespecting my situation that I can't control people don't know how stressful life is with a stutter 💯...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 23, 2023
2 points

Might be nervous laugh. Might be mocking. But I prefer hearing laughs to people interrupting me mid-first-sentence. Taking my voice away is worse....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterMar 22, 2023
18 points

Do People Laugh Out Loud When You Start Talking?

Do People Laugh Out Loud When You Start Talking? Long time reader, first time posting. I’m in my early 30s and I’ve stuttered all of my life. For the most part I’m at peace with it, though I have my u...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Stigma & BullyingFrustration & AngerShame & Embarrassment
commentr/StutterMar 22, 2023
1 points

Oh, I understand what you mean. That's more than likely the case - I talk to this new friend in discord calls and everyone who is in there with us is very supportive of him, very nice to see. Everyon...

Community & SupportSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyFriendships & BelongingFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 21, 2023
14 points

It's tough man, I remember literally screaming at the sky one day just as loud as I could out of frustration and just being tired of it. I lived in a rural area so I guess I wasn't worried about someo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2023
2 points

the lady didn't respect me, she said: "you want to win nobel prize? hahahaha" So she heard what does not satisfy her ;)...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Frustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2023
3 points

I understand... sounds like you handle it better than I.. I would have had different set of words coming out and best believe no stutter pops up when I use them 😂😂...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Frustration & AngerStrategic Swearing/Cursing