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commentr/StutterMar 21, 2024
2 points

I agree. I think it all comes down to expectations (that we rely on to move our speech muscles). Expectations such as: * Linking "very scared words in front of strangers" to "not executing speech mov...

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commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
1 points

There is no pressure. No one is expecting nothing from us but we. We put the pressure ourself. I believe PWS are highly self demanding/perfectionist people....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 20, 2024
1 points

In my opinion: I think that situational stuttering comes down to our expectations. Expectations like convincing ourselves that speech errors (such as, anticipation) are bad or fearful in certain situ...

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commentr/StutterMar 19, 2024
2 points

Being a stutters might have a relationship with being a perfectionist. It might be compensating...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2024
1 points

It does slightly make your throat bigger, so try just resting on the bottom right before you speak, and don't overthink the speech...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 19, 2024
1 points

Actually, that has to be placebo, when you talk more quickly the tongue being at the bottom of your mouth makes it closer to the state it needs to be to make most sounds, so resting the tongue on the ...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 18, 2024
1 points

Do you ever get over the mental aspect of stuttering? I find when I have my streaks of fluency, there is always a thought in my brain that reminds me I have a stutter, then I can randomly start feelin...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2024
1 points

Yup and I hate it because I was somewhat fluent. Then I'm not when I have to repeat. So frustrating...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringRepetitions & ProlongationsFrustration & Anger
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2024
6 points

I feel that the more you focuse on your speech, the more you'll stutter. Sometimes I'm focus on smth and someone will ask me a question, and I'll just answer fluently cauz I didn't think about it or c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2024
8 points

Yep sometimes when I have to repeat myself I like to shorten the sentences like what are you doing this weekend “I’m going to build a chicken coop”and then they ask me I will be like “build a chicken ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2024
10 points

It annoys me so much. It takes so much effort for me to say anything so why would anyone want me to do it again?!...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Frustration & AngerOverthinking & MonitoringListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2024
23 points

Yess this happens to me all the time. For me, I find repeating something verbatim is so much more pressure than just speaking normally, as there isn't the safety net of saying a similar meaning word i...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Overthinking & MonitoringRepetitions & Prolongations
postr/StutterMar 15, 2024
62 points

Do you stutter more when asked to repeat yourself?

Do you stutter more when asked to repeat yourself? This one gets me every time. I’ll say something fluently, but then the person didn’t hear and asks me to repeat myself. I’ll stutter every time in t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceParent & CaregiverSocial & Relationships
Overthinking & MonitoringHome SupportListener Reactions
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2024
3 points

It sounds like you've not gotten over worrying about your speech just yet. The main step towards overcoming your stutter is letting go of judgement of others. This is very difficult, and it took me ye...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shiftOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterMar 14, 2024
11 points

Please

Please Hi, can you give me some advice because I have to give a presentation tomorrow and I have to present it without any text and I have to know the text by heart. I have the text and I know it, but...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacySchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringMindfulness & BreathingPublic Speaking
postr/StutterMar 13, 2024
10 points

State of Blocking

State of Blocking When I fear an upcoming block I enter on blocking state. What I mean with this is my mind and body prepares for the block. I know I will block. I can feel it on my body. I can read ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2024
1 points

So, to go back to my arguments why traditional speech therapy didn't work for me: IMO, Reasons why traditional speech therapy probably didn't work for me: * If we consider the primary symptom of stu...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringPhysical Tension+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 13, 2024
1 points

"The techniques and tricks of traditional therapy don't work because SLPs don't treat it as a phobia, they're only interested in the mechanical function of speech." Reply: I'd like to reply to this...

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postr/StutterMar 12, 2024
6 points

Eye contact, Stuttering and Dating.

Eye contact, Stuttering and Dating. I struggle maintaining eye contact with people when i'm speaking, especially when i start to stutter. Sometimes they look away and it makes me feel bad. What trigge...

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postr/StutterMar 12, 2024
11 points

Mom of teenage mild stutterer / blocker (M/17) trying to help and not make things worse

Mom of teenage mild stutterer / blocker (M/17) trying to help and not make things worse Hello! I have found other Reddit communities helpful for other purposes and am hopeful of finding a supportive ...

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