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commentr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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I am also covert. I went years and years without being noticed, I could hide it so well. Too well. Been with my boyfriend for almost 8 years now, it took me atleast 4 years into the relationship to te...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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I don't think it was to show weakness, most of his ideas were misunderstood and he also couldn't express his inventions well also, the episode focused on the past Kang variant, so in a way, the "weak ...

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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Deal with the physical obstacle of you stuttering, something you can definitely unlearn, rather than how ppl see you if you stutter. Very tricky indeed. You have to tell yourself (believe) certain th...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Physical TensionHiding & ConcealmentDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2023
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Trust me. She knows. I thought the same with my fiance and she says she has always known despite me trying my hardest and succeeding in not stuttering around her in the beginning lol...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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I'll try by all means to own it, but I've been hiding it all this time. It's like building a new character basically but pretty sure I can do it....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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I’m glad you’re going to confess. I’m 30 and have stuttered all my life. I find it best in relationships to just be honest from the start. Hiding it only makes it worse for my stutter because my anxie...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAuthenticity vs. Masking+1 more
postr/StutterOct 24, 2023
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Two 15 minutes presentation this week

Two 15 minutes presentation this week I have to give two 15 minute presentation in this week , and i stutter but nobody in class no i Stutter,i have given 5 minutes presentation before, i am able to h...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & WorkSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionSchool & Academic LifeDisclosure & Telling Others+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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Redefining Stuttering is the stuttering bible. Also **Speech is a River** by Ruth Mead. Beatiful, honest and easy to understand. She tells the history about how she overcome his severe stuttering by...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingMindset shift
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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I have the same problem. I get a weird spasm/tic when I get a block and then I see the other person notice or they say something and it throws me off and snowballs the whole thing. I think the fear of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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I find public speaking easier than casual conversation but I can’t speak to anybody.

I find public speaking easier than casual conversation but I can’t speak to anybody. I think that this seems contrary to what other people generally post on here but, for me, I have always found it mu...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Public SpeakingAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
postr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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Anyone Tried This Techinque For Stuttering - Pretend your voice is being controlled externally

Anyone Tried This Techinque For Stuttering - Pretend your voice is being controlled externally My theory is that in many cases, stuttering is when your body expresses anxiety through the systems invol...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilitySpeech & Stuttering
Stress & Fight/FlightAuthenticity vs. MaskingLoss of Control
commentr/StutterOct 23, 2023
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embrace the block, having an fear/intimidation dynamic with your stammer can make you overthink like crazy and just create more unnecessary stress over something you don’t have that much control of, a...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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That's an interesting perspective! Yeah I do feel like sometimes, being more comfortable can paradoxically make us stutter more. I've been trying to find techniques to help me be a bit more fluent my...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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I'm also in this situation, I started to think that we take ourselves too seriously, we don't see anything good in ourselves....

Identity & Disability
Identity & Self-PerceptionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
1 points

Of course, we can. The fact is that we need to constantly practice communicating, primarily with strangers, in order to master the art of fluency. I don't believe it is a neurological issue for the re...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Overthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 22, 2023
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Thx for your suggestions, I’ll definitely try to desensitize about my stutter, I really need to try to start living my life now, it just feels like everyone is so happy but me...

Coping & AdvocacyIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterOct 21, 2023
1 points

You’re probably still afraid of his criticism and becoming more comfortable and accepting of your true self will help you stutter lesser and lesser. Stuttering is a defence mechanism to hold you back ...

Identity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Authenticity vs. MaskingIdentity & Self-PerceptionTrauma & Psychological
postr/StutterOct 21, 2023
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Will pretending I’m recording myself help? Thoughts?

Will pretending I’m recording myself help? Thoughts? I’m learning a language and I want to improve my speaking ability in that language and I feel like my stutter really hinders it. I think a lot of...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAuthenticity vs. Masking
postr/StutterOct 21, 2023
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Do anyone else act like this ?

Do anyone else act like this ? So i just watched Breaking Bad, and when i gotta make a presentation or something i think like “What would Walter do in this situation, like how would he act and speak e...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & DisabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Roles & PerformanceAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterOct 20, 2023
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No one else in my family stutters, just me. I’ve had it since I started talking and it improved significantly in my early schooling. Sometimes it gets worse for a while, sometimes it gets better. I mo...

Causes & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Genetic & Family FactorsTrauma & PsychologicalCycles & Randomness+1 more