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commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2019
7 points

Yes they are really helpful, but I suggest you stop trying to avoid talking to people in fear of stuttering it only re forces the fear and makes the problem worse ...

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postr/StutterFeb 10, 2019
3 points

Covert stuttering

Covert stuttering Hi everyone I am what you could call a covert stutterer. In short this means I often hide my stutter by using different words or not even engaging in talking when I want to. End resu...

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commentr/StutterFeb 10, 2019
6 points

Under any circumstances, I rather put my face in to fecal matter than try to open my mouth to order....

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commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2019
5 points

haha, I have a mc donalds literally on the corner of my road (which is rare in the UK) and i never went there. But since they installed those, I do sometimes go in there. I know we should try to speak...

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commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2019
22 points

I’ve driven an extra 15 minutes just to go to the McDonald’s that has these because the one closest to me doesn’t lol ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2019
-2 points

Well, tests have shown that they have traces of fecal matter on them. And touching these especially in a bad part of town before eating doesn’t make me feel good. Doesn’t take away from the fact tha...

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commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2019
2 points

Hahaa yes I've been there. Usually I get a couple things in mind that I might want and just say the one that flows when the time comes ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2019
2 points

Yeah, not only the courage but also the stamina. I find public speaking freaking exhausting. I gave just a 20 min speech yesterday. As usual my hands were shaking after it. ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightPublic Speaking
postr/StutterFeb 9, 2019
21 points

Restaurants

Restaurants I have a wide range of foods I love simply because I’ve last second ordered something I didn’t want to avoid stuttering on the menu item I actually wanted. Some of those dishes have turne...

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commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2019
1 points

I have brought it up with people who know me. I try to joke with it also, saying, "I'm not having a stroke, I just seem to have developed a stutter." Seems to be a nice way of putting it....

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commentr/StutterFeb 9, 2019
1 points

We shouldn't really have to address it, but I find putting it all out there is really helpful for me. Some people like to make a joke about it, but I actually find just casually telling them is the be...

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
5 points

Thank you for this comment. This is so important and it took me a long time to figure out that accepting, owning and managing my stutter was going to be the only way to live my life the way I want. AN...

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
2 points

I concur with these two responses. I used to hide my stutter as well, and I started a few years back being open about it in interviews, and even putting in on applications. I recently applied for Tea...

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
1 points

Speaking slowly really does help. I find that when I speak slowly, I worry the person I'm talking to is getting annoyed, so I start speaking quicker and end up stuttering as well. They probably don't ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
3 points

Thank you. I've sort of come to grips with it already. I've found that if I speak slowly, I can usually prevent myself from stammering. But I always seem to eventually pick up the pace and then start ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
2 points

I'm really sorry to hear this. I know any oral part of an interview is a real struggle for all of us. It's really, really frustrating and upsetting to me that people immediately pass on us just becaus...

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
1 points

I had to give a presentation last year when I was in 2nd year (14 yo) and I also did it on stammering. We had to talk for 3 minutes but I think I may have gone over a bit, but I talked to my teacher b...

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
1 points

Keep going out there and talking. The more you do it, the easier it will become. I've been stuttering my whole life too btw. ...

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commentr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
1 points

I sometimes do an accent, thats helps but i only do this around people i know. Did it onve while ordering at starbucks and got wierd looks but thats all your gonna get when you stutter too. Figured i ...

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postr/StutterFeb 8, 2019
19 points

Of course I didn't get the job..

Of course I didn't get the job.. Went in for an interview yesterday and had a hard time articulating in front of a 3-Panel group. Walked out knowing that I had no chance at all. Got a reply this mor...

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