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postr/StutterNov 7, 2016
17 points

I had a shitty job interview today

I had a shitty job interview today Not gonna bother you with a large paragraph. Basically: fear of stuttering took control over me and I was shy and short in my answers. I now feel like crap because I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 7, 2016
1 points

Start speech therapy again, it won't cure you, but it helps, and even a mild improve can make a lot to your daily life. A psychologist might help too, not directly with your stutter but with all the a...

Therapy & ProfessionalEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Seeking TherapyTherapy ExperiencesAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterNov 6, 2016
21 points

I don't think I can ever be successful in life. My stuttering is holding be back so badly.

I don't think I can ever be successful in life. My stuttering is holding be back so badly. I'm writing this because I'm just frustrated and depressed. I feel like my stuttering is getting worse, when ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+3 more
commentr/StutterNov 5, 2016
2 points

I still stutter every day, but I can work my way around it and such. It was way worse when I was in elementary school, and gets worse when I'm nervous/anxious. ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 4, 2016
1 points

I don't know how to put this exactly but I'll try. I know that it's nobody's fault (least of all mine) and people don't really care but I just cannot come to terms with it when I actually stutter. I f...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityParent & Caregiver
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 3, 2016
2 points

Second this about being nervous. Your tips and tricks are very helpful. I've also had similar expirences in terms of diverting more conscious energy toward speaking helps prevent blocks...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2016
3 points

I find that when I am nervous or talking to someone who is watching my face intently it gets worse. Like people who make a lot of direct eye contact and after they're done talking look at me to see my...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & MonitoringAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2016
1 points

Though I think that my stutter is mostly a neurological disorder, as most sources say, I do have mental blocks sometimes because I panic when I start to stutter....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Neurological & BrainAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterNov 2, 2016
-4 points

That's a mental block and many believe you experience it because your unconscious mind is involuntary holding you back. If one blocks simply because they stutter then that means they can never impro...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
postr/StutterNov 2, 2016
8 points

I blame my parents...

I blame my parents... I've posted this on another subreddit, but I found this one and feel it is much more relevant here. First things first, I love my parents to bits and would totally do anything ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Genetic & Family FactorsShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+2 more
postr/StutterNov 2, 2016
3 points

Getting over my fear of talking on the phone?

Getting over my fear of talking on the phone? Hi, i've been looking for a job for a few months now. Sometimes I miss a call from somebody asking to setup an interview but i'm just so nervous on callin...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career+1 more
commentr/StutterNov 1, 2016
2 points

Maybe you stutter because you don't want to stutter. Lessening the anxiety around your speech would definitely help....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 28, 2016
4 points

I empathize with your situation, I have had lots of presentations in college and at work and I've had many job interviews. The worst thing you can do is be unprepared, you should have a rap memorized ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life+1 more
postr/StutterOct 28, 2016
11 points

I had a Skype interview...

I had a Skype interview... So on Tuesday I had a Skype interview for an internship position with my school. I spent all of Monday preparing what I was going to say for each question and felt excited/n...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterOct 26, 2016
1 points

It's completely normal to feel a sense of shame towards these situations. Especially when you want to say a particular thing and it goes to shit. But even people who don't stutter would still feel som...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2016
2 points

I never have problems thinking of things to say in any situation and I'm genuinely both funny and charming. Fortunately I can't speak more than a word without embarrasing myself. At least I have the c...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2016
2 points

I would be so social without my stutter, it's the only thing holding me back, even if I have social anxiety. When I was a kid I always wondered how people without stutter or any sort of speech proble...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2016
4 points

stuttering definitely prevents me from striking up conversations with people or continuing conversations which makes me look introverted. i used to be extroverted but now i would rather just be quiet ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2016
3 points

Of course. I'm a natural introvert but in my business I've trained myself to be extroverted for short bursts, and it's really difficult to do that when people give you the stink eye because you said t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentPower Dynamics & Intimidation
commentr/StutterOct 25, 2016
1 points

Met 2 guys who stutter. But they were very introvert and shy so making conversation with them was a tough task....

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social Judgment