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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
1 points

Yes and no. If I'm under pressure and somehow dominating the situation, then less stuttering. But if I'm under pressure and have to submit to the situation, then more stuttering....

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
6 points

Also a 16 year old stutterer here. The thing I want you to know is that most people (I mean like 99.9999999%) won't care about your stutter and are mature enough to understand. You're your own worst e...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
postr/StutterJan 10, 2017
7 points

my stutter makes me incredibly nervous speaking to people and I just want it to stop.

my stutter makes me incredibly nervous speaking to people and I just want it to stop. i'm tearing myself up about this. i'm 16 and i've been stuttering for as long as i can remember. i think it's gett...

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commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
1 points

I guess we're opening a can of worms. It was terrible! I went through a period where I could not communicate with others. It was that bad. Reducing anxiety helped me. I still stutter, but not like I d...

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Trauma & PsychologicalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
1 points

I don't know the answer. It comes and goes with me??? I am sure anxiety plays a role, maybe not the root but exacerbates it. What I do know is anyone today that would discount you b/c of your/our sp...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
12 points

I mean, I agree and disagree: I do think that anxiety plays a huge role in it, but the root cause is dually a subconscious tightening of certain muscles in the neck and improper breathing when speakin...

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Neurological & BrainStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
7 points

I can't agree as I'm not an anxious person. I only get anxiety when stuttering and that happens even if I'm having a chill day and I'm comfortable around a person. It just happens....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJan 10, 2017
3 points

It's worse for me. I'm almost always completely fluent in normal conversations where I know I can say anything I want to say and I don't need to say anything specific. But if I'm being asked a questio...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 9, 2017
4 points

Alcohol before interviews

Alcohol before interviews Anyone else take a few shots before interviews? Alcohol really helps with getting the words out and also mitigates the severe anxiety that I usually get just before an interv...

Meds & SubstancesEmotional Experience
Recreationa substances (e.g. Alcohol, Cannabis)Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2017
2 points

Making others feel comfortable is a good trait to possess but stuttering creates an obstacle achieving that. By default, most people will initially be uncomfortable with a stutter. It takes confidence...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2017
1 points

I know the feeling. School was hell for me. I stopped doing my homework because I didn't want to answer questions in class. You're only about two years away form the "real" world. School is a very pr...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
School & Academic LifeAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 8, 2017
1 points

Thanks a lot for that. I go back to school tomorrow after the Christmas break and our class is going to be doing a public speaking class for the rest of the year. As soon as I heard about this in Sept...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterJan 6, 2017
2 points

It may not mean a lot, but a ton of us, myself included have felt very similarly to how you are describing. It definitely does get better, people stop being assholes, and you become more comfortable w...

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Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2017
1 points

I think I'm about 50/50? It's hard to say. I'm definitely not completely introverted, though I do like my alone time. I love spending time with my friends and I really enjoy my customer service job (e...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2017
3 points

I have a lot more confidence. I like it. I do stupid annoying things at times but I just gotta go with it and not over analyze. Over analyzing is so pointless imo I think I was always an extravert, ...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2017
3 points

No, I prefer to be at home spending time by myself. Though, I can be outgoing for small periods of time, but I end of feeling drained pretty quickly. ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Loneliness & IsolationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2017
10 points

I am. I tried to turn my anxiety into excitement. Kind of a mental thing. Fake it until you make it lol. I try to have fun and stop over analyzing. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2017
1 points

Ah I see. I'm a bit younger than you, but still recently I have been feeling the pressure that I need to date. I dunno maybe I just shouldn't care....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2017
1 points

Breathe deeply. All the time. It'll help you to relax. Or at least to help overcome the anxiety you have about your speaking. ...

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Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterDec 29, 2016
2 points

need help in getting ready for a game show at a con.

need help in getting ready for a game show at a con. So every year i go to this little convention and every year or so they have this cosplay dating game where your blindfolded and have to choose a da...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesAnxiety & Social Judgment