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commentr/StutterJan 30, 2017
-2 points

I care cause it creates doubts and anxiety amongst people who legitimately want to do something about it. You don't know what's right and what works anymore....

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Advice RequestsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2017
1 points

I'm saying nothing about the cause of it. What's more important is resonating to everybody here that adopting this attitude will make things worse for you. ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 30, 2017
15 points

Aren't you the guy that made a bunch of threads filled with nothing but negativity? I think you're doing all that shit to yourself and you're just looking to blame somebody else. Also if it works fo...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2017
6 points

Giving compliments to strangers or people I don't know well. If I stutter while delivering the compliment I've realized that some people don't hear it as genuine, because a sound wasn't easy for me to...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAnxiety & Social JudgmentDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 28, 2017
2 points

Women get attention by simply..existing. If a woman has good looks and maintains a good physique, no guy would give one single shit if she stuttered. Also, woman can get away with being shy. A guy ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2017
2 points

> and it still bugs me really. This is the root of the problem. Why does it matter what other people think? Do you think how you feel about yourself matters in how other people react? Do you think...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 27, 2017
9 points

Your most annoying social situation to deal with?

Your most annoying social situation to deal with? Mine is trying to order a drink at a busy bar. The bartender looks at you, waiting for a drink order, and the stammer block hits. The bartender think...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2017
1 points

Even when I do try and carry myself in a confident manner, people still get weirded out and it still bugs me really....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 27, 2017
5 points

Tell them that you have a stutter, if they don't like or can't handle it, fuck 'em. You're probably still gonna be a nervous mess tho but that's just how it is....

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 27, 2017
9 points

Starting to hate everyone I meet

Starting to hate everyone I meet I am 25 almost about to be done with college, but still struggle with speaking. I am at the point where I have gotten used to all the typical reactions from people bei...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & BullyingQuality of Life
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2017
5 points

I ended up doing these so often when I was in university that, by the time I was done, I saw no reason to get nervous. However, I would still get nervous automatically when I knew I had to introduce m...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringPreparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 25, 2017
4 points

I'm not sure I would have been able to comprehend this when I was younger but going through college I've realized that stuttering, failing a class, or most things that cause me anxiety aren't going to...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2017
3 points

I had to do it a ton when I started my new job at a large corporation here. I think it might have broke me. I never stuttered in any of them and I rarely ever stutter at work. Not sure why....

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2017
1 points

Just watched it and I think it's very inspirational. Maybe you are right, maybe it's all those little puzzle pieces that will help us to become fluent, to "rewire" us. Watching that, I get the sense t...

Coping & AdvocacyTherapy & ProfessionalSpeech & Stuttering
Mindset shiftPositive Therapy TechniquesOnset & Life-Stage Changes+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2017
17 points

Clicked the article expected it to be written by a woman and wasn't surprised. For woman having a stutter usually is not a disability when it comes to dating. For men on the other hand it's a very dif...

School & WorkSocial & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerDating & RomanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2017
3 points

Well, this was about 20 years ago so bear with me as I try to remember - many of the skills she taught me were breathing-related. What we did was read. I read out loud to her and to myself (recorded) ...

Coping & AdvocacySpeech & StutteringSchool & Work
Mindfulness & BreathingPhysical TensionPublic Speaking+3 more
postr/StutterJan 22, 2017
9 points

Why is my speech so much worse with my parents

Why is my speech so much worse with my parents I hung out with my friends yesterday and hardly stuttered saying whatever i felt like(maybe it was the pressure to not stutter due some girls being there...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentFeared Words & NamesHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2017
3 points

What will work also depends on what kind of stutter you have. I found out that technically I don't have a stutter in the typical way, but cluttering. My treatment is more a consciousness of what bri...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Repetitions & ProlongationsAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 18, 2017
3 points

How do you prefer people react during a stuttering block?

How do you prefer people react during a stuttering block? There is a coworker (I'll call her "Cynthia") with whom I've worked with for three years, and every time I'd stutter when talking to her she'd...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2017
1 points

Hmm I haven't been going through a tough time. But I notice it more when I start talking a lot. Almost like I get nervous and have anxiety and the. I hear myself stutter or stammer and it makes it wor...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight