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commentr/StutterMar 15, 2017
1 points

This. It's difficult for others to pick on someone they perceive as more confident (& thus more dominant) than they are. So you stutter. I'm sure you're better than them in many ways other than ve...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
postr/StutterMar 15, 2017
7 points

Medication question

Medication question I have social anxiety and depression (self diagnosed) I am 19, male, managed to get a full time job in a field of work I actually enjoy but only got this because my father works ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentHarmful Med Outcomes+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2017
1 points

Sounds like you've got the right attitude. I've made the mistake too and know the anxiety about phone calls. Good luck. Definitely a process and journey. ...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 15, 2017
3 points

It's not cringy but will damage your professional life if you keep it up. One of the best things you can do as an employee is be a good communicator. Stuttering has nothing to do with this. That sai...

School & WorkAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+3 more
postr/StutterMar 14, 2017
6 points

Has anybody else here straight up refused to call back their boss when they leave a voicemail because of anxiety?

Has anybody else here straight up refused to call back their boss when they leave a voicemail because of anxiety? I've gotten better with this, but I have straight up not called my work back a few tim...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2017
2 points

I once almost skipped a class because I thought I would have to do one of these. I had a class with the professor before and we did one. I came in halfway because I thought I might get dropped if I di...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2017
3 points

My observation is that it doesn't make me stutter less but it does help with the anxiousness, the body of the 'iceberg'. Anything that quells that is helpful in some regard. I'd take it even if I didn...

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2017
3 points

This might not be applicable to you but I find that being anxious/nervous is what makes you an easy target so to speak, by projecting confidence and conveying that you simply do not care or are not sh...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2017
1 points

I read this post twice. I can say that this is one of finest post ever written here. I totally agree with you. "All of these are the symptoms of a strong emotion: a deeply rooted fear. The fear of wha...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 14, 2017
8 points

Yes. I still can't say "True Detective," which was a very frustrating thing in 2014. The "cashier / person at desk while people are behind you" thing is absolutely mortifying though. I always feel li...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Feared Words & NamesStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2017
2 points

It sounds like a great way to see the world and live out what many people only dream of. Just to play devil's advocate, I will say that many countries outside of North America and parts of Europe vi...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterMar 12, 2017
1 points

You clearly have a confidence that I don't have. I've tried so many times to pretend to be confident and sure of myself. Then with each successive stutter that confidence fades away to where I present...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & Agency
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2017
3 points

My advice is to go head on, do everything you want in your life and DO NOT let stuttering get in your way. If you speak confidently and happen to stutter it is not that big of a deal. HOW you deal wit...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Voluntary Stuttering & ExposureHope & MotivationAcceptance & Pride+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 10, 2017
6 points

Hey man, im 17 and have gone through a similar 'isolated' phase, no friends, the fear, anixety, the exhaustion and depression. It really sucks. But by simply making the decision to change your mindset...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterMar 9, 2017
1 points

This comment is going to be long. Sorry in advance. I wish I knew what caused my stutter. I am a 22 year old woman and have stuttered since I was 9 years old. It sucks a lot to have to deal with thi...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAvoidance & SubstitutionRepetitions & Prolongations+3 more
postr/StutterMar 9, 2017
18 points

Almost punched a bus driver today......It's Stutterering related.

Almost punched a bus driver today......It's Stutterering related. I post on this sub because I almost got physical with a bus driver who was being an absolute dick and not giving me a transfer and the...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Feared Words & NamesFrustration & AngerStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2017
2 points

Ummm. No, I haven't tried speech therapy I have zeroed in on the main causes of my stutter, and it seems that I get too nervous about what the other person may think, or how he/she will react to what...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterMar 8, 2017
5 points

How to keep calm during a convo ?

How to keep calm during a convo ? So I suffer from this stuttering problem. Thing is that I don't stutter around everyone.... I don't stutter when I am with people I am comfortable with, like my cousi...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2017
1 points

Props to you for doing many interviews per day, you're definitely winning that battle. I can't go to the store without feeling anxious, lol. I would be angry as well if someone did that to me on the p...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerFrustration & AngerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 8, 2017
1 points

You're right anxiety is a big problem for me, wish i could just cast it aside when situations like that occur but my brain just goes full potato mode and everything goes to shit. Oh well.. I'll try to...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentOverthinking & Monitoring