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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2018
3 points

I also use the avoidance strategies when I need to give presentations for class or need to talk in a more stressful/important situation. With my friends I guess I started putting less effort into it b...

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commentr/StutterJan 26, 2018
3 points

I've always been bervous of meeting other stutterers, since I've l don't want to be in a situation where I stutter after they do amd they think I'm mocking them. Thankfully it hasnt happened yet....

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commentr/StutterJan 25, 2018
8 points

I've never met another stutterer but I really don't want to. Even seeing stuttering in movies makes me really uncomfortable and self conscious of my own stutter....

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Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2018
4 points

So, your question is complicated. Most people do have dysfluencies in their regular speech. 99% of people are so slight that most won't notice. Many children will see their stuttering decrease throu...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Onset & Life-Stage ChangesOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 24, 2018
7 points

Has anyone else here started stuttering out of the blue?

Has anyone else here started stuttering out of the blue? It's been like this since Saturday, after a hard competition, but the doctors think it's stress. Luckily people at school are nice about it, bu...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 24, 2018
6 points

M8, I used to be in your shoes, like exactly in your shoes. I used to be extremely sensitive to people's requests, tried not to annoy people, even though my stutter did even though I couldn't control ...

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commentr/StutterJan 24, 2018
4 points

I just stutter normally too. But I am more sensitive to how people react...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2018
3 points

Focus on the moment and what you want to say. Don't get caught up in trying to speak fluently and carry a conversation. What you just said - however you said it - is already said. Don't fear failing t...

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Mindset shiftAuthenticity vs. MaskingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2018
1 points

Do exactly what you said. Be confident and optimistic man. The key to dating is just to keep doing it until you're so relaxed it's like second nature. I haven't had any particularly bad dates and mo...

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Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 23, 2018
2 points

Thought I was the only one! I get uncomfortable because people might laugh and that will remind me of the times when people would laugh at me. Also, I get uncomfortable cause I realize that's how I ac...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterJan 23, 2018
12 points

I have a date tonight, feeling nervous but optimistic. Anyone here have dating stories?

I have a date tonight, feeling nervous but optimistic. Anyone here have dating stories? going to see a movie tonight with a girl i've known for a little while. I like her a lot and i think she's into ...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 22, 2018
1 points

For me, if I'm blocking on a word, I'm not going to get it. I restart my sentence (or part of my sentence) and try to push through it. The issue is that this is a coping mechanism as they say in SLP (...

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postr/StutterJan 22, 2018
10 points

How much research has gone into the psychological aspect of stuttering?

How much research has gone into the psychological aspect of stuttering? Before I start, some background. I'm 18, I've been stuttering since 6th grade. Growing up, I talked really fast (I feel this may...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentTrauma & Psychological+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 20, 2018
3 points

Hiding your stutter is the worst thing you can do. It's what it's driving your anxiety and fear of stuttering. You have a job, a wife. You've accomplished plenty in your life already. No reason to wo...

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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2018
3 points

I can carry on conversations with some people with minimal issues. I do stutter at home but it is certainly not nearly as frequent or severe. The social anxiety side of things makes it worse so I nor...

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postr/StutterJan 20, 2018
14 points

Blocking for almost 30 years

Blocking for almost 30 years Hi everyone. Most people don't know I stutter. I've been able to finish school and work full time without any major problems but that doesn't mean I'm not stressed out an...

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commentr/StutterJan 20, 2018
2 points

You have an awesome attitude, keep it up! I was in a similar position in college (I'm 30 now) but nowhere near as mature -- I drugged myself up to my eyeballs, partially due to my insecurity about m...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentMindset shift+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2018
6 points

I would tell you it gets easier but it really doesn't imo. You just get better at managing what you can control about it, and you get much better at managing the people you decide to actually spend ti...

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Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 19, 2018
18 points

College Stuttering Thread

College Stuttering Thread Hey guys, I'm a college student who struggles heavily with stuttering and blocking, particularly over the phone and in classroom settings. It comes and goes in waves. Some da...

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commentr/StutterJan 18, 2018
3 points

I hear you man. I can really relate to your train of thought - I grew up with it, and had it until relatively recently. I used to think stuttering and confidence were definitely mutually exclusive, bu...

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Hope & MotivationAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride