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commentr/StutterJan 22, 2024
5 points

Basically this, it’s never been an actual issue with the person I’ve been seeing beyond my own confidence. If it’s a first date sometimes I’ll mention up front that I stutter so if I can’t say a word,...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. MaskingAcceptance & Pride+2 more
postr/StutterJan 22, 2024
6 points

How to communicate with the opposite gender if I am a stutter?

How to communicate with the opposite gender if I am a stutter? Since my childhood I have been a stutter although not as severe before but I am still stuck if I am in a slightly nerve wrecking situatio...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
6 points

When someone likes you they find things about you cute. I dated someone once with a noticable overbite and while she was embarrassed I thought it was cute as hell. Also a lot of the dating pool, espe...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & PrideValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
2 points

People that I was NOT actively dating tried to flatter me by telling me my stuttering was cute, and it immediately killed any chance they would have had. Also you don't have to think that everything...

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Dating & RomanceStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
1 points

People that I was NOT actively dating tried to flatter me by telling me my stuttering was cute, and it immediately killed any chance they would have had. Also you don't have to think that everything...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
4 points

People that I was NOT actively dating tried to flatter me by telling me my stuttering was cute, and it immediately killed any chance they would have had. Also you don't have to think that everything...

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Dating & RomanceStigma & BullyingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2024
2 points

I’ve had girl-friends that had stutters and I’ve found them adorable, also some with lisp and I might be a lil biased because their feminine tone did help so maybe it was the way they sounded more tha...

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Dating & RomanceValidation & EmpathyAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
2 points

I am a 19 year old woman who stutters , I have dated , and am dating now, my partner doesnt care because it doesnt make me any different. I think truthfully there are no tips to dating with a stutter ...

Identity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
3 points

Be yourself. I’m 46 and work in the music industry. I have never had an issue with women with my stutter. The woman I am dating now is super fine with it. (And she is super fine. lol) Take time to fin...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
postr/StutterJan 14, 2024
26 points

How are you able to have a normal life?

How are you able to have a normal life? I have been stuttering since I was a child, as a defense mechanism, I isolated myself my whole life because of it. Which obviously had a major effect on my m...

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Helplessness & AgencySadness & HopelessnessQuality of Life+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2024
3 points

I don’t know how much this will help but I’m also 19 and my bf, 20, has a stutter the way he said I made him comfortable is when we first met he allowed me to ask questions, before him I never met som...

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Dating & RomanceSelf-Advocacy & BoundariesDisclosure & Telling Others
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2024
4 points

Exactly this! I'm 33 and have gone through the wringer in my past dating life. The ones that truly accept you and enjoy your time together and really listen, are the ones to grow old with....

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2024
3 points

No I’m saying the women and men will overlook a stutter or any other flaws if the other person is physically attractive...

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commentr/StutterJan 13, 2024
2 points

You'd date someone who was hot but made fun of your stutter? respect yourself more please...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2024
2 points

Hey Who you are as a person is much more important. I urge you to consider this about yourself. I understand where you are coming from. Try not to let your insecurities about stammering contaminat...

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Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2024
3 points

Yeah, don’t waste your time with anyone who isn’t cool with it. They’re trash and would only bring you down in life. In my experience, there are plenty of great people who won’t be bothered by it and ...

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Acceptance & PrideDating & Romance
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2024
29 points

Use it as a filter to find nice girls to date. The ones who arent cool with it arent worth your time anyways....

Social & RelationshipsIdentity & Disability
Dating & RomanceAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterJan 12, 2024
10 points

my only advise would be to maybe try some heavy resistance training. I recommend it to most people who stutter, but at the same time I understand the hurdle and the time it takes to learn how to do th...

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postr/StutterJan 12, 2024
15 points

Stuttering and Dating

Stuttering and Dating I’m 19 currently in college. I’ve never had a problem with attracting females, but I have a stutter that I’m not too confident in. Some girls are cool with it, but sometimes a gi...

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postr/StutterJan 12, 2024
16 points

I can't speak a second language even though I know it

I can't speak a second language even though I know it I was born and raised in NYC by Polish immigrant parents. That means all my life I was surrounded by Polish speakers. I may not know how to read...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Blocks & StoppagesFeared Words & NamesPropositionality & Weight+2 more