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commentr/StutterSep 24, 2019
1 points

It’s still better than stuttering face to face in my opinion, so while it’s unpleasant and presents a challenge I utilize the drive through more often than going inside....

Anticipation & Avoidance
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postr/StutterSep 24, 2019
9 points

does anyone have other speech problems beside your stutter?

does anyone have other speech problems beside your stutter? personally, i sometimes speak unclearly and have trouble connecting thoughts/ideas into a complete sentence (poor verbal organisation). ho...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & Stuttering
Avoidance & SubstitutionBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2019
11 points

Those new touchboards that have started making an appearance at McD's are a god-send. Saved me more than once on a bad day....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2019
2 points

I can relate to this so much it’s crazy :’) I would so be an extravert if it wasn’t for my stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2019
13 points

i work at maccas and taking orders on the little headset?? worst thing ever. genuinely sounds like a bootleg robot who got taught how to speak but then someone spilled water on it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterSep 24, 2019
1 points

I can imagine that you are really in your comfort zone when you are talking about the things you are writing and that makes you more fluent. Every person who stutters has their own individual patterns...

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Experiential AssociationAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2019
3 points

Starting with "my name is (blank)" or "Hi, I'm (blank)" are definitely good spring boards. Often times, I will say my name before I am asked for it, as I feel there is more pressure/anxiety subconscio...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & RelationshipsSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling OthersEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2019
2 points

Yeah I’ve found with saying “my name is” I can sometimes spring board past the first syllable of my name which is where the blocking actually is...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2019
7 points

You know everybody has times in there life when they said some really akward shit? And you get that feeling in your stomach when you know you said something your going to regret later? Thats what its...

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Shame & EmbarrassmentHelplessness & AgencyAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2019
6 points

I do the same thing, but I cope with it by leading with “my name is” at the start, which is slightly awkward but it helps start the sentence, which is the hardest part. If you have an obscure name t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionDisclosure & Telling Others
postr/StutterSep 23, 2019
17 points

I’m scared to say my own name, it’s like a phobia

I’m scared to say my own name, it’s like a phobia I have a stutter and usually I’m whatever about it but lately I’ve been stupid anxious over it. I stutter often on my name specifically so I never int...

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Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionShame & Embarrassment+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2019
5 points

It was a brilliant decision to get out of your comfort zone and get the new job! It was a conscious decision but now your subconscious is tripping you up. Over years and years of stuttering you have d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionHelplessness & AgencySeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2019
6 points

That is quite possible, and thank you. I guess I just didn't realise the scale of change. Everything is so intimidating. Also, english is not my first language, so I think its hard for someone like me...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2019
2 points

The thing I envy the most is when non stutterers take it for granted. They say stuff like ur a shy person/introvert to me. No bitch my stutter forces me to shut my mouth often to avoid looking like an...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterSep 23, 2019
12 points

Did I make a wrong decision?

Did I make a wrong decision? 32 M here. First, let me just say how great it feels to come to this forum, even just to lurk around. I have been stuttering since childhood. My stuttering is a bit inco...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSeverity & Fluctuation+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2019
1 points

I love the “slow down, just take your time.” oh so that’s what I have been forgetting to do for my entire life. Thank you for curing me....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2019
1 points

I think the very best first sentence is "Hi, I am (name). I just want you to know that I have a stutter. if it happens, just wait and let me finish. That's all." Self-disclosure is so powerful. It mig...

Social & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Disclosure & Telling OthersAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2019
2 points

I agree, it simply sucks. It's in the nature of stuttering to ebb and flow and we can't always put the finger on why. The more you struggle, the worse it gets, like a noose that gets tighter and tight...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & SubstitutionHope & Motivation+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 23, 2019
2 points

I feel you buddy. But since i accepted the fact i would never speak fluently all the way, i found a sort inner peace. And the stutter is gone now for like 70%. Don’t go for fluenty, go for eloquence...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySocial & Relationships
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commentr/StutterSep 23, 2019
4 points

That’s maybe some of the worst advice you can give to someone who stutters...

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