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postr/StutterOct 9, 2019
3 points

I feel like its taking over me..

I feel like its taking over me.. I've been stuttering since I was young, had speech therapy when I was in grade 5-8 and became quite fluent with my speech and my speech therapist highly suggested to c...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2019
1 points

Best way to handle this in my experience that you stutter and its not something ya can control and that sometimes an answer will take longer. Almost all teachers will take it into account and that way...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2019
2 points

>Can you reach out to a speech language Pathologist? I did today after a lot of research in the inter webs. hasn't happened all day so maybe that bad juju is gone or something. Scared me a bit. Se...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionPhysical TensionSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterOct 9, 2019
8 points

I tried it before but she was like.... why would you write it on a paper when you could say it and i was there like Excuse me?? If i can I would’ve said it wtf?!...

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postr/StutterOct 9, 2019
12 points

Aladdin movie quote as stuttering metaphor

Aladdin movie quote as stuttering metaphor I watched Aladdin on a flight to NYC. btw, spell check caught me using two L and one D :) Spell check is my magic lantern when writing... mic drop In the ...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2019
16 points

Next time write that shit on a piece of paper and hand it to her/him. 15 Marks is more than a letter grade! Thats what I would do tbh. Its not even my 15 marks but I feel it!...

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commentr/StutterOct 9, 2019
1 points

Definitely. There's no such thing as a true synonym, every word has slightly different meanings. For example 'warrior' and 'soldier' are considered synonyms, but you would think slightly different a...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2019
1 points

Dude I’m sorry you took that the wrong way, I’m just frustrated with myself and would never make fun of someone for having a speech impediment as I know what it feels like .. but I also know what othe...

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postr/StutterOct 8, 2019
5 points

Do you mention in job interviews that you stutter?

Do you mention in job interviews that you stutter? Hello, just found this subreddit and decided to write a post right away. It's good to be able to talk about this with people that go through the same...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2019
2 points

Funny u ask.. I’ve been doing a ton of reading into the correlation between the two and all the anecdotal stories that people have said their stutter and anxiety diminish or go away completely.. would...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2019
0 points

Have you considered nofap? I think a lot of these problems can be tied to masturbating, especially the stuttering and anxiety....

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2019
2 points

People would rather cope with their stutter rather than be proactive about it and thrive....

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2019
12 points

I connect deeply with what you say here. So many times I have used different words or phrases to avoid stuttering, only to feel a sense of "moral failure" afterwards--why didn't I say exactly what I m...

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postr/StutterOct 8, 2019
45 points

Does anyone feel this way?

Does anyone feel this way? I always feel as though I’m not doing the best at describing my thoughts. The words that I use in particular always feel, after the fact, like I could’ve used better ones. I...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2019
1 points

>That story is hilarious omg. I’m gonna try it out probably when ordering at restaurants because that’s when I tend to stutter the very most, for some reason. I’d at least like to FEEL like I’m in ...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2019
2 points

First of all I am really sorry you had to go through that, people reacting like that always feel like shit and makes me want to ounch them in the face. The honest yet difficult truth which I have been...

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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2019
2 points

Fuck, this is too accurate. There’s so much shit I wish I could do, that I wanna do, but I feel like I can’t....

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postr/StutterOct 7, 2019
42 points

Had a horrendous phone interview, please talk me down lol

Had a horrendous phone interview, please talk me down lol I’ve been unemployed for two weeks and got a phone interview for a great front desk position at a 5 star medical office. I’ve done front desk...

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commentr/StutterOct 7, 2019
0 points

its all in how you hohohohld yourself, if you walk up and suh suh suhs suhs suhs say, hi, its different, but walk up an an an an an an an an an an ann say nothing, i think you'll be okay. oth oth otht...

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postr/StutterOct 6, 2019
2 points

any tips on handling business related life?

any tips on handling business related life? properly adressing yourself in networking and establishing social connections are as crucial as it gets and it can obviously get stressful for even a normal...

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