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commentr/StutterSep 14, 2018
2 points

Yah, ive noticed I have to ride this weird line where I acknowledge it and accept it but where I don't overly obsess over it. It's pretty hard to do, especially when situations get stressful. I've als...

Identity & DisabilityCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideMindset shiftAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 14, 2018
2 points

Honestly, I started a new job a few weeks ago that involves a lot of direct customer interaction both in person and over the phone and my stutter and the anxiety that comes with it has gotten steadily...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & CareerBlocks & Stoppages
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2018
6 points

Thats a B.S statement. Try to have a comm class where you have to give speech two times a week or any public speech then you will change your mind....

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPublic Speaking
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2018
2 points

The spontaneity must have made you more fluent. When they ask you to repeat yourself, they sort of put you on the spot so it makes you more anxious?...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2018
1 points

I also sometimes tell people that I stutter before I talk, and it becomes much easier to deal with. My stutter worsens with social anxiety, so with the social anxiety away, I can talk with ease. The o...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2018
2 points

I've also noticed how it gets much better when I tell the friends that I'm with that I'm struggling with stuttering in the current situation. It sort of releases this intense "fear" or anxiety of sta...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Self-Advocacy & BoundariesAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2018
2 points

I also don't know where to start and I've been super depressed lately because of it. Just a thought I had lately, I think dealing with my social anxiety may be more helpful thant I think it would be. ...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & HopelessnessSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2018
5 points

It's because stuttering is a huge stressor. We don't have the capacity to deal with much else (when it's worst). But it's not like the struggle is a constant. We know it varies on its own, and we als...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentSeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2018
2 points

Hey man, just found your post so I don't know if you're still hanging around here. My situation is super super similar and I have to say it feels good to see I'm not the only one in a similar situatio...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2018
4 points

100% know how you're feeling. The first time is natural and you're relaxed. The second time you tense up and due to previous instances of stuttering, you probably subconsciously know you might stutter...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 13, 2018
1 points

Anxiety and stuttering, plz Help!

Anxiety and stuttering, plz Help! Hihi, I stuttered on a moderate level when I was a child and it had basically evaporated until I started stuttering back a few years ago. The thing is, I have a prett...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 13, 2018
2 points

Both people that stutter on every word/have hard blocks or covert stutterers that have huge anxiety around their stuttering....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2018
4 points

I'm sure it's a mix of confidence and spontaneity that allowed you to speak fluently on the first try. When you were made to repeat the sentence you probably had a little more anxiety due to the fact ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 12, 2018
34 points

Talk when people aren't paying full attention

Talk when people aren't paying full attention When I say something and the people is not paying attention atm, the phrase goes perfect and then you thought "great i didn't stutter" and the persons say...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionExperiential AssociationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2018
6 points

I work in customer service and so the same. It used to terrify me and I still get nervous every so often. But when I do stutter and someone looks at me weird or laughs awkwardly I keep going and try t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2018
1 points

That's what happened to me too. I used to talk to my friends on a daily basis, and my stutter was not so bad back then. Ever since my friends moved away, I stopped talking to people and became fearful...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentFriendships & Belonging
postr/StutterSep 12, 2018
8 points

Anyone else have a customer facing job?

Anyone else have a customer facing job? I work a front desk of a recreational center at my college, so I spend most of the time answering phone calls and talking to people. I was absolutely terrified ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2018
2 points

After high school i stopped talking on my daily basis, only speaking with my family. Everytime i tried to start a conversation with some stranger i felt so ashamed of my self, i always expect the mome...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 12, 2018
1 points

Yeah I know how you feel. It seems that whenever we have a change of place, we ourselves change too. Did something happen after high school that caused you to change? A lot of people think I'm rude t...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 11, 2018
4 points

UK Stutterers - medication?

UK Stutterers - medication? I've been stuttering since I was 14 (25 now) and while my stuttering has improved with avoiding certain words and involuntary word substitutions, still get nervous when do...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment