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postr/StutterSep 21, 2018
7 points

Can't even talk to parents

Can't even talk to parents This is so frustrating , I can't even communicate with the people close to me. It all gets so frustrating at times. It's not that , my parents rush me or anything , they are...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries+2 more
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2018
1 points

To make things worse, I see a therapist and today I have an appointment and this is just going to be the biggest waste of time, I am totally on edge. Most times I am able to communicate fine, a few st...

Emotional ExperienceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHelplessness & AgencySeeking Therapy
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2018
2 points

The fact that you're worried about your friend and that you want to be there for her says so much good about you. I hope you do manage to call her. I know it's tough, but if you can, try not to focus ...

Community & SupportEmotional Experience
Validation & EmpathyAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 20, 2018
2 points

Yeah I try to view it as "needing a reset", I have a lot of anxiety at the moment so I guess just accepting that it's going to hang around until that goes. Yes I view it as a curse too. I've been suc...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2018
1 points

I'm able to keep going, I guess it's like stalling a car. I just address my breathing and restart. Like I've said I get by most of the time without it even troubling me. I definitely notice it more wh...

Speech & StutteringCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesEnergy & Biological RhythmsAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 19, 2018
4 points

Stressed and trying to communicate

Stressed and trying to communicate So I had a stutter when I was a kid and have all but managed to keep it under control, 99% of the time it wouldn't be evident that I had speech problems in the past....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2018
8 points

Each to his own I guess, but I don't take too kindly to anyone that gets clever with me about by stutter. I'm sure you mean well but I don't agree - they know exactly what they're doing, Good manne...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 19, 2018
2 points

Your situation seems to be similar to mines. I'm 24, graduated at 19. Throughout elementary school and middle school, I had a speech therapist paid by the school, and every Wednesday she would come an...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterSep 18, 2018
30 points

The face of the person ur calling when u got a stutter.

The face of the person ur calling when u got a stutter. ...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2018
2 points

I hate it when people tell you things like "its all in ur head" or "you just are not good at talking n u don't talk enough"...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2018
1 points

I communicate when I have to in work and I never feel like I've "won" afterwards, all I'm thinking about is the look I just got from the person I was trying to talk to when they realise I stutter. And...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterSep 18, 2018
1 points

You're assuming that I don't communicate with anyone. I do. I really struggle with it hence the reason I'm on this fucking sub. And you're whole "get over it" attitude doesn't exactly help. And don't ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2018
5 points

As I was losing my stutter, I started having a different kind of anxiety. It was an identity crisis. I was used to anticipating my stutter, and I was 99% certain when I would start to stutter and empl...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Identity & Self-PerceptionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2018
2 points

I know a few people who have speech impediments including stuttering. Usually the younger you are the more embarrassed you are for them, then it turns to a more sympathetic/empathetic stance as you ge...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Anxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2018
3 points

Thanks for the insight. I believe practicing mindfulness is very important to many of the aspects of stuttering including anxiety! ...

Coping & AdvocacyEmotional Experience
Mindfulness & BreathingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2018
10 points

This was the exact reason I started attending NSA meetings. Being uncomfortable around other stutterers made me realize I was not comfortable with my own stutter. Acceptance is the primary key to flue...

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterSep 17, 2018
16 points

I would never want a stutterer friend in real life. I don’t know if it’s just me, but I just can’t bear seeing another human being stutter. I don’t personally know any other stutterer, but I remember...

Emotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterSep 16, 2018
1 points

Yeah I know I should but i’m worried he will think i’m being rude. Also it seems like such a stupid thing to complain about and I know he means well....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterSep 15, 2018
5 points

Patronizing teachers

Patronizing teachers I’m in high school and despite my moderate to severe stutter, I think of myself as a pretty confident guy. Sometimes during class discussions, where we are graded on what we say, ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterSep 15, 2018
1 points

Yeah that line is really weird. I have to do that too. I guess you have to think of your stutter as a part of your personality, but something that you own. Not something that controls your life. I d...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception