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commentr/StutterOct 8, 2024
2 points

Same ! I would feel like an idiot like ummm why does your parent talk like that ..yikes 😬 Can’t be me 😂...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2024
2 points

I never talk bout my stutter, I find it so embarrassing and I'm so ashamed of it.. it's something I've never accepted or ever will.....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterOct 8, 2024
13 points

I've met two others and it sucked actually. Their stuttering was worse than mine, so I felt sorry for them and got very self conscious. There's no good way to bring it up either so I just "acted norma...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentExperiential Association
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2024
1 points

Being embarrassed bc of stuttering is so painful... Like I would be a perfect human being even if I didn't stutter...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2024
4 points

You are so brave. Somehow listening to this just made me cry becoz this is how i speak. And for some reason ,everytime i stutter i feel so guilty about it and i avoid being interactive . But you are t...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Shame & EmbarrassmentHiding & ConcealmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 7, 2024
0 points

Guess what, thats why i dont really go outside. I'm afraid I'll be approached somewhere. Usually when it happens its not that bad (Its ofc depends, on words and the person... you know what i mean..) b...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2024
2 points

for me it's not the comments or the gossips it's usually the looks i get my internal thoughts are louder than what actually out there...

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2024
2 points

i'm aware of the fact that it doesen't define who i am, but people usually gossip and make assumptions "Oh you see that guy over there? He can't talk without glitching and lagging" and then i get l...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAuthenticity vs. MaskingStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 6, 2024
32 points

Yep know the feeling, it's just like someone stopping you and asking for directions, you end up so embarrassed and hating yourself after. totally ruins your day.....

Emotional Experience
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterOct 6, 2024
48 points

i'm so fed up with this...

i'm so fed up with this... i never been someone that post about their problems online but i don't care anymore so i was outside getting some groceries, an old guy approaches me he asks: are you by ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringFeared Words & NamesAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2024
0 points

Doesn't always work. I've had grown adults laugh at me when I'm trying to introduce myself for the first time. I was nervous to speak because I hate introducing myself, but there was no respect or d...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerStigma & Bullying
commentr/StutterOct 5, 2024
3 points

Wow. Just. Wow. I've stuttered/blocked since the 4th grade and while I was listening to your recording (incredibly brave btw!) it dawned on me-- ok no, it hit me over the head like a sock stuffed wit...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentPersonal StoriesShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterOct 3, 2024
1 points

Bro I deal with the same thing. I’m 23. I’m just now realizing that people who don’t understand or are just immature are just gonna treat us like that. And I used to just feel so bad about myself, emb...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentFrustration & AngerIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
1 points

I’m approaching people like you left to right, I have long blocks, and 90% have been great interactions, I kid you not. Right now I’m facing a bit of a hard time with accepting, there’s longer blocks ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Shame & EmbarrassmentAcceptance & PrideHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterOct 2, 2024
0 points

It’s mad tho isnt it I hate having one and I’ll avoid it at all Costs !! My workplace doesn’t even know I have one either I hide it that much...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment
postr/StutterOct 1, 2024
6 points

Hurting Jaw

Hurting Jaw Hi, I tend to tense my mouth when I talk, I've done this for many years, and it's really hard for me to not do it. I get headaches from it, and my whole jam feels sore. I am feeling help...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSpeech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringPhysical TensionShame & Embarrassment+1 more
commentr/StutterOct 1, 2024
1 points

So many times in my life I pretended to forget the word just because I felt that I couldn’t say it ahh it’s so exhausting:(( recently I felt better and started ordering food again and it was fine for ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentOverthinking & Monitoring
postr/StutterSep 30, 2024
17 points

Realizing I’ll probably never have it as good again

Realizing I’ll probably never have it as good again I recently had to leave my job as a barista at Starbucks due to starting college, which I miss horribly (this isn’t a promotion or anything btw). As...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceMeds & Substances
Hiding & ConcealmentShame & EmbarrassmentHelpful Med Outcomes
postr/StutterSep 30, 2024
25 points

Its hard

Its hard My dad is sick, he will retire in 1 year, im still in college, there hasnt been a single night that i havent thought of killing myself. I cant do it, i really wanna be strong and ive been fig...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Suicidal Ideation & High DistressSadness & HopelessnessHelplessness & Agency+3 more
commentr/StutterSep 30, 2024
9 points

Ugh, so sad and ignorant. That little girl will have a lot to unlearn if that’s not the only untruth she was taught....

Emotional Experience
Shame & Embarrassment