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commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
3 points

Listen...I really understand there are times when I can’t text...and I do not text during those times. I’m talking about something specific here. I was looking for a place to vent...not argue with som...

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
5 points

I completely understand where you are coming from, but there are times where you can't just text: phonecalls from doctors, scheduling appointments, phone interviews, work calls, etc. There's so many b...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
3 points

With respect...no. I have had this response before...and...no. I will not face a fear that I have had since I have had a working memory. I am well beyond young adulthood, and I have faced this fear th...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
1 points

Thank you a lot for your response. Thinking about it now, I believe that it could be a result of all the changing in my life and bureaucracy I have been doing without my parents. I‘ll definetely take ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionTrauma & Psychological
postr/StutterJan 5, 2020
10 points

Refusal To Text

Refusal To Text People who are in my life know that I struggle with the phone, but some of them still almost refuse to text me, knowing that I struggle, and still call me primarily...and then wonder w...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 5, 2020
1 points

To answer everyone, No i am not in school. I flunked my first semester in all 4 classes with grades ranging from 11-34 . Ive been kicked out of the school and denied fafsa for the next year. The scho...

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commentr/StutterJan 4, 2020
10 points

For me, bad blocks were a symtom of avoidance behaviors that I had to correct. The longer I would run from situations, the worse my speech would become. For example, for the longest time I would avoid...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionFluency TechniquesVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2020
1 points

SLP here who has studied stuttering - the reason why this works is because your brain is focusing on the novelty of the accent, which lessens the frequency of stuttering in that instance. Many childre...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJan 4, 2020
3 points

I block and stutter in English(first language) since I was 6 but I don't in my 2nd language. A lot of it I believe has to do with the translation parts of the brain interacting also with the normal sp...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSituational VariabilityAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2020
2 points

Sorry also to add to that I was quite a bad stammerer and i just fell into driving and found that i could get on by hardly speaking to anyone But on the flip side is that since I've had thera...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionValidation & EmpathySelf-Advocacy & Boundaries
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2020
1 points

I'm 14 years old and can relate to this alot. I've had no previous issues with talking, but suddenly I've started stumbling little and often with my words when recalling something or talking to my fri...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionStress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2020
16 points

Stereotype: stutter is something that can be overcome if you work hard, take some meds, sing, breathe, etc; and if you still stutter in adulthood that means you’re lazy. A lot of times strangers start...

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commentr/StutterJan 3, 2020
2 points

I tend to find that if I’m having sex it goes away completely. Possibly because I’m not really thinking about what I’m saying as much. However, I think it’s more likely to be because I feel no pressur...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterJan 3, 2020
5 points

I see in many ways how this is true and I agree, it's just natural instinct to choose whether on not you're engaged in a Conversation, and stuttering only makes it around 10x harder to keep someone en...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionPropositionality & WeightValidation & Empathy+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2020
1 points

To be honest it helped me control it more. I stopped thinking about it so much and just started to say fuck it. I feel like it can cure me, I think our stutter is associated with our ego and if u can ...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHelpful Med OutcomesPsychedelics & Microdosing
commentr/StutterJan 2, 2020
1 points

I feel like that's how some people develop a stutter. I feel like I created it when I was little for attention or something and now it's an actual problem I have....

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
postr/StutterJan 2, 2020
6 points

i avoid arguing all together. Nothing like tryna be blunt or convincing and stutter.

i avoid arguing all together. Nothing like tryna be blunt or convincing and stutter. anyone else avoid disagreements? just letting it roll off your shoulder.....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionFrustration & Anger
postr/StutterJan 2, 2020
7 points

Post Fluency - How not to be an outsider?

Post Fluency - How not to be an outsider? Am new to this subreddit but like everyone here it's a subject that's close to my heart. I'm 37 and have always had a stutter. There is no living memory befo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentSituational Variability+3 more
postr/StutterJan 2, 2020
26 points

I feel like my stutter can be completely cured.

I feel like my stutter can be completely cured. I have had a stutter off and on my whole life with the cause being my social anxiety and depression. If I'm feeling bummed or lonely or super bored I ha...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & ConcealmentStress & Fight/Flight+3 more
commentr/StutterJan 1, 2020
8 points

I got downvoted to hell last time I mentioned this. But I have a real I'd say medium level stutter. Some days I'm fairly fluent others I can't get a word out. But when I was in high school everyone ba...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & VariabilityCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & FluctuationVoluntary Stuttering & Exposure+1 more