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postr/StutterJan 19, 2019
4 points

The Acquaintance Stage (First Post)

The Acquaintance Stage (First Post) Throughout high school I was very anti-social due to my stutter. I would avoid all opportunities to talk, after 4 years at the same school most of my class mates st...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterJan 19, 2019
1 points

Me, i do not stutter at all during presentations(given that im prepared), but when i talk to ppl, i stutter sometimes, i kinda have it under control but i still do from time to time....

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2019
1 points

Hey! Sorry for the insanely late reply. I think presentations in general, whether in front of the team or in front of your classmates, are always anxiety inducing. We also have clinical practicals in ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & RehearsalEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2019
2 points

When I had to give a presentation i talked to my teacher before hand and she said she’d mark me differently to everyone else and to just not be bothered about what other people say about my stutter...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Disclosure & Telling OthersAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2019
2 points

First off, good on you for even trying this. When I was in high school I avoided speaking in front of people and it wasn't until a year or two out of high school that I opened up and started to talk...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 18, 2019
6 points

A source of most of my stuttering is being nervous and thinking about stuttering. One thing that helps me is really concentrating on relaxing when I talk and taking my time....

Emotional ExperienceCoping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindfulness & BreathingOverthinking & Monitoring
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2019
2 points

Oh ok, then you might want to just prepare headlines, so like when you're presenting prepare your slideshow or whatever you're presenting, and make sure you have the main ideas on there, and always ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2019
1 points

While I appreciate the positivity of this post I think you fail to realize some people’s stutters are massively outside this scope. It’s not as simple as just “stay calm” and “talk slowly”. It’s a lot...

Emotional ExperienceCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2019
1 points

Most people who stutter, the stutter comes from the anxiety before starting to speak. So usually things that are scripted are easier to do. What helped me out was that, i used to listen to songs and t...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & RehearsalFluency Techniques
commentr/StutterJan 17, 2019
11 points

No matter how hard I try I cannot stay calm while speaking, especially in front of my class, not so much with my friends/family It’s like as soon as I start speaking I cannot take a breath unless I s...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentStress & Fight/Flight
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2019
2 points

It hasn’t helped me yet in regards to my speech, cause when I get nervous I still get the really chesty breath and sound like a glitched out robot, but it’s generally supposed to help to reduce anxiet...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 16, 2019
2 points

If I'm speaking to certain people, mainly store clerks (say I'm ordering food) and I get stuck, it often feels like I get a look of complete horror. Like they'll get caught completely off guard and no...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & RelationshipsAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentListener ReactionsAvoidance & Substitution+1 more
postr/StutterJan 15, 2019
28 points

Do people look at u like you’re slow when u stutter? Even speech therapists?

Do people look at u like you’re slow when u stutter? Even speech therapists? I work in healthcare and although I hide my stutter I do tend to slip up once in a while and whenever it happens people loo...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentShame & Embarrassment+2 more
commentr/StutterJan 14, 2019
2 points

I sound like a motivational public speaker when no one is around and then when in public I turn out to be timid. ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Roles & PerformanceAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2019
1 points

You're like me, my stuttering is caused by anxiety and lack of confidence. When I'm feeling really good about myself, I don't stutter at all. The longest I've gone without stuttering is about a week....

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commentr/StutterJan 13, 2019
5 points

For me it's like whenever I am relaxed or in a place where I don't have any expectations, I stutter less. Probably because anxiety reduces ! Regarding you second question, I just remember the last f...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterJan 13, 2019
1 points

You will stutter during the interview. It's ok. Don't fight the anxiety. It's ok to be anxious. Here are some tips: 1. Let the interviewer know that you stutter. 2. Focus your answers on three reason...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterJan 11, 2019
8 points

I’m usually pretty quiet on groups of people I’m not 100% comfortable w and they probably see me as quiet and socially awkward when I just don’t want to stutter in front of them...

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Hiding & ConcealmentAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterJan 11, 2019
12 points

Have a job interview Wednesday... Thinking about canceling

Have a job interview Wednesday... Thinking about canceling I'm currently in my second year of college. I realized that I needed to start getting some experience to put on my resume for after I graduat...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Hiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterJan 9, 2019
1 points

I’ve never seen a stutterer in my life! But I wouldn’t approach them. It’s like you are paralyzed and see another guy on a wheelchair. Doesn’t make sense to start a conversation about an unfortunate d...

Emotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Anxiety & Social JudgmentLoneliness & Isolation