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commentr/StutterApr 8, 2019
1 points

People get extremely mad when I don't look at them when speaking, my stutter tends to get worst if I'm having direct eye contact, You aren't alone. ...

Emotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPhysical Tension
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2019
1 points

I have the exact problem. I would say my case got really severe around middle school and it's has affected my confidence and making friends etc. Ive tried therapy before and it has helped but it just ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionShame & EmbarrassmentAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 8, 2019
1 points

Was the therapy you had centered around controlling your stutter or becoming more fluent? If so it's not surprising your self esteem plummeted when it didn't work. I saw many different therapists and ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCommunity & SupportEmotional Experience
Avoidance & SubstitutionAdvice RequestsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2019
3 points

I don't notice when I repeat. Like sometimes I send someone a voice text and I don't feel like I've stuttered at all but when I listen to it I notice my repetitions. with blocking though IT IS REALLY ...

Speech & StutteringEmotional Experience
Blocks & StoppagesRepetitions & ProlongationsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 7, 2019
3 points

Holding eye contacting is what people do when they talk. Avoiding eye contact is a negative because behavior. I think averting eye contact is more strange and looking at the other person makes you mor...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 5, 2019
30 points

I worry too much about what other people think.

I worry too much about what other people think. I'm currently a college student and this is my second semester at this college. Last year, my speech was nearly fluent. I did start stuttering more towa...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2019
2 points

You're conflating a bunch of different things. Stuttering isn't some psychological puzzle to crack and once you do you'll be able to talk in public like you do when you're alone. You're on a fool's er...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2019
1 points

I believe that stuttering is 90% caused by psychological fear, and the other 10% is caused by something else. I know it is very hard not to be nervous, but I can only say it comes with practice. I use...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2019
2 points

I like this answer a lot. It’s all about attitude. Do you think your stutter gets you down and is the reason that you didn’t get the job you wanted? Well guess what, it absolutely is. On the contrary,...

Emotional ExperienceCoping & Advocacy
Anxiety & Social JudgmentMindset shift
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2019
1 points

Frankly, nobody cares (or should care) about your stutter more than you do. What they care about however is the content. Sure, delivery might not be your strong suit but make sure that whatever you sa...

School & WorkEmotional Experience
Employment & CareerAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2019
1 points

This makes me think of Roosevelt’s man in the arena speech. Check it out sometime! Essentially you gotta get rid of the fear. That is what gets you, that stresses you out, and saps your confidence. Do...

Emotional Experience
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHope & Motivation
commentr/StutterApr 4, 2019
2 points

Some other great advice on here, practice, know what you’re going to say, leave the difficult words for q&a. In my experience though the best way to combat anxiety based stuttering is to get rid o...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 3, 2019
1 points

I think with strangers it's very awkward to ask if one should "help". Because I think most of the people wouldn't say no, out of politeness. ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2019
1 points

Essentially cultural history, I’m going to be focusing on cultural dynamics between Europe and the Roma people. I talked to an advisor who said that there would never be problems, but I’m still a litt...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & RehearsalSchool & Academic Life
commentr/StutterApr 2, 2019
1 points

My university is all about image and it’s kind of a worry of mine. I know they can’t legally stop me but I am a little worried they will discourage it. ...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentPreparation & Rehearsal
commentr/StutterMar 28, 2019
4 points

Good on you for reaching out for feedback. Clearly you really dig this guy, and its sweet that you want to do right by him. I second everyone else’s comments on here: - let him finish his thoughts, ...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional Experience
Listener ReactionsFriendships & BelongingAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2019
1 points

Great post, Its rare I relate that much to someone else on reddit! I'm also in my early 20s in uni with an extremely mild stutter. It never affected me socially or during my jobs/placements but like y...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & WorkCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic LifeSituational Variability
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2019
2 points

\-Don't look away when he stutters, he might look away (I do that when I stutter, I lose eye contact), if he does, don't look away! \-Don't smile or like nod or anything like that, it might seem sup...

Social & RelationshipsEmotional ExperienceCommunity & Support
Dating & RomanceAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2019
1 points

Utter hell. ​ when i've a fluent day, i approach, this small gap makes me able to approach, having a good time, not making everyone feeling awkward etc. but if my stutter relapse, i dont...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social JudgmentDating & Romance
commentr/StutterMar 26, 2019
1 points

That’s definitely understandable, but all drugs alter your mind in a sense. I didn’t take the drug with the intent of fixing myself or my stutter. I took LSD really just for recreational use, it just ...

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & DisabilityCauses & Variability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-PerceptionStress & Fight/Flight