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commentr/StutterMar 3, 2020
2 points

Of course it's a good method to reduce the syntoms and I am very happy for you. I think it's not true to say that are causes, they are synthoms. The core of stutter is an high level, that's my point. ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Avoidance & SubstitutionTherapy Experiences
postr/StutterMar 3, 2020
5 points

How hard is it to both get a job and interact with customers when you have a stutter?

How hard is it to both get a job and interact with customers when you have a stutter? I'm a 16 year old Male and I want to get some sort of job in the summer to give me some work experience as well as...

Anticipation & AvoidanceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2020
-1 points

These are the ideas, which blocks the healing of stuttering. I corrected these features and became 99% fluent, even if in a job interview. If there is a difference between a stutterer and a normal pe...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2020
1 points

I do that at Starbucks all the time, if I know I won’t get my real name out. Some days it’s fine but other times, I give them a random name that’s easier to get out....

Anticipation & Avoidance
Avoidance & SubstitutionHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterMar 3, 2020
14 points

Yeah brother I can relate. When I don't plan a conversation and forget about stammering I speak absolutely fluent and whenever I remember that I have a stammer the blocks gets in the way so I think it...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionAuthenticity vs. Masking
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2020
1 points

Yeah, sadly, most long-term stutterers experience this every day. My stutter is hardly noticeable, but the constant changing of my words due to blocks gets tiring....

Anticipation & AvoidanceCauses & Variability
Avoidance & SubstitutionSeverity & Fluctuation
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2020
1 points

Yeah substitution works for me too at times and it was something I did for a long time. But personally it seems more like coping/escaping rather than tackling the problem head on. I'm trying to mast...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Avoidance & SubstitutionMindset shift
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2020
3 points

Yes. For me, it’s not like I’m insecure about it, it’s more so just an annoyance. Like I’m definitely an extrovert, but my stutter has forced me to stay quiet to avoid embarrassment. But otherwise I...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & Disability
Avoidance & SubstitutionAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterMar 2, 2020
1 points

It is better. People will think that you can not speak due to language level, not your stutter. You will relax. You also need more time to speak a new learned language. It will help you slow down and ...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & Avoidance
Situational VariabilityAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2020
1 points

Nope. But I take beta blockers in certain situations like public speaking or important work meetings and it works wonders!...

Causes & VariabilityAnticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Stress & Fight/FlightAvoidance & SubstitutionStimulants & Caffeine
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2020
2 points

I do this but use the word “so”. It usually can get me going enough for the words to start flowing out...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionStimulants & Caffeine
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2020
2 points

You just described me exactly. I find it so much harder to execute 1 word responses then anything else because so much pressure is put on that one word. For example when people ask what my name is. ...

Speech & StutteringAnticipation & Avoidance
Blocks & StoppagesAvoidance & SubstitutionAnticipating Stuttering
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2020
2 points

Tbh I usually use “um ah” as a way for me to build off my sentence. For example, “Um ah, do you have a package for… or “Um ah, is today Friday?”. For me making the sentence as short as possible withou...

Anticipation & AvoidanceMeds & Substances
Avoidance & SubstitutionStimulants & Caffeine
postr/StutterMar 1, 2020
3 points

What Do You Do In High Pressure Situations Involving Just A Few Words Or One Sentence?

What Do You Do In High Pressure Situations Involving Just A Few Words Or One Sentence? So this is a pretty unique problem I have and I don't know if anyone else here also has it. As a stutterer, I a...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSpeech & Stuttering
Anticipating StutteringAvoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & Monitoring+2 more
commentr/StutterMar 1, 2020
2 points

Don't have notes just have an idea of the message you want to get across and have power point slides with bullet points instead. Then have questions on every few slides and let the audience do some ta...

Anticipation & AvoidanceCoping & Advocacy
Preparation & RehearsalAvoidance & SubstitutionFluency Techniques
postr/StutterMar 1, 2020
2 points

New to the subreddit, looking for help.. i guess

New to the subreddit, looking for help.. i guess Hello. I have been stuttering for as long as i can remember (I’m 18). And I recently came across this subreddit, and I have some questions since I ha...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionOverthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social Judgment+1 more
postr/StutterMar 1, 2020
6 points

Hello, is it possible for stutter speaker to move to a new country where there is a different language?

Hello, is it possible for stutter speaker to move to a new country where there is a different language? Hey, so I have been wondering about my future, right now I am learning Germany but stutter it so...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
postr/StutterMar 1, 2020
3 points

Motivational speaking as a *stutterer*

Motivational speaking as a *stutterer* I only put the word stutterer in quotations - as I myself am not a stutterer to a certain extent. I trip and stumble on words alot and even when trying to slow d...

Anticipation & AvoidanceIdentity & DisabilitySchool & Work
Avoidance & SubstitutionIdentity & Self-PerceptionPublic Speaking
postr/StutterMar 1, 2020
8 points

What is your perspective on relationships?

What is your perspective on relationships? Hi, maybe u remember me. I wrote a few days back that i got high five from my girlfriend after i overcame big block. Yeeahh she broke up yestrday and i dont ...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSocial & Relationships
Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social JudgmentSadness & Hopelessness+1 more
commentr/StutterFeb 29, 2020
1 points

Hey, I think this idea is cool. I've done something similar using normal YouTube videos. But I never really continued to do so. So my question is, will this help me in situations where I can't use an...

Coping & AdvocacyAnticipation & Avoidance
Fluency TechniquesAvoidance & Substitution