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commentr/StutterApr 29, 2019
2 points

I personally don't have OCD, but I do have 'OCD tendencies' (apparently) that are set off by anxiety and depression. I had a therapist tell me this a while ago, and I do notice it more and more as I g...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 29, 2019
1 points

Even though I am a stutterer, I had to really work on the habit of finishing people's sentences. I do it to everyone, not just stutterers and I really have to remind myself not to. I will finish peopl...

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Avoidance & SubstitutionAnxiety & Social Judgment
postr/StutterApr 27, 2019
3 points

I approached this girl who i liked at college...

I approached this girl who i liked at college... It went terrible... I walked up to her n asked about where she got her cool red jeans at n we talked a little bit... N well... It was a disaster... I s...

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Feared Words & NamesHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2019
2 points

Good luck! One of the best pieces of interviewing advice I received last summer was to just treat it like a conversation. Doing this helped me think of the interview as us talking somewhere over cof...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Preparation & RehearsalAnxiety & Social JudgmentEmployment & Career
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2019
2 points

I guess every stutterer is different; confidence helps me a lot. I'm glad you love yourself and are a confident person, though....

Identity & DisabilityEmotional Experience
Acceptance & PrideAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 26, 2019
2 points

im the most confident person you would ever meet , that doesnt make any less likely to block and stutter than you though. i dont like when stutterers are labeled as less confident....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2019
5 points

I am very musical and I love meeting new people it's just my stutter is a problem and I'm just awkward...

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2019
13 points

I am tremendously outgoing once I know you and love to try to make you laugh, stutter be damned....

Emotional ExperienceIdentity & Disability
Anxiety & Social JudgmentIdentity & Self-Perception
commentr/StutterApr 25, 2019
3 points

I think the most important thing to remember here is that you are not a stutterer. You are a person that happens to have a stutter. This is a crucial distinction, as your identity is not solely define...

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commentr/StutterApr 25, 2019
1 points

Understandable. I would talk to a counselor or therapist. They can help with the depression and anxiety. Also, it’s good to talk to someone who won’t judge you because you have a stutter....

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Sadness & HopelessnessAnxiety & Social JudgmentValidation & Empathy
postr/StutterApr 24, 2019
8 points

I went to another job interview today

I went to another job interview today Hello everyone! It's been a while since I've posted here. I made these two topics a little while back. [https://www.reddit.com/r/Stutter/comments/aexqhj/have\_a\...

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Anticipating StutteringHiding & ConcealmentOverthinking & Monitoring+3 more
commentr/StutterApr 24, 2019
1 points

Good stuff, thanks. I really identified with the Speech Judge part. I am constantly searching in others' body language, expressions, etc for information on how they view my speech. Unhelpfully, app...

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Overthinking & MonitoringAnxiety & Social JudgmentAcceptance & Pride
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2019
10 points

I feel the same way. My prof did an experiment and we all had to say our birthday. OUR BIRTHDAY. I stuttered the birth day...

Emotional ExperienceSchool & Work
Anxiety & Social JudgmentSchool & Academic Life
postr/StutterApr 23, 2019
6 points

How many people with a stutter also have OCD?

How many people with a stutter also have OCD? Lately I've been noticing (especially on this subreddit) that a lot of people with a stutter also have OCD, and I'm one of them. I have OCD since I was a ...

Causes & VariabilityEmotional Experience
Severity & FluctuationAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2019
2 points

Eh. I know they mean well, so I don’t count it against them, but still it can sometimes feel like I’m being talked down to. It really depends on the tone of voice though....

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Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2019
4 points

A lot of people judge your intelligence level based on your appearance first of all before you even decide to speak. Not so much by just existing silently....

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & Avoidance
Anxiety & Social JudgmentHiding & Concealment
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2019
2 points

Hi ​ I have an interview tomorrow at a bank and I feel too lots of anxiety regarding my speech blocks. I also tend to get over-preocuppied about these situations. Then in the beginning of...

Emotional ExperienceAnticipation & AvoidanceTherapy & Professional
Anxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & SubstitutionPreparation & Rehearsal+1 more
commentr/StutterApr 23, 2019
1 points

Classic chicken or the egg dilemma. For me, I don't know whether the stutter causes the lack of confidence, or vice versa. I find on my fluent days, I am more confident but, again, am I fluent becau...

Anticipation & AvoidanceEmotional Experience
Anticipating StutteringAnxiety & Social Judgment
commentr/StutterApr 22, 2019
1 points

Witht friends it's b but it's either a or c depending on the social situation. Or D if I try to explain to them the problem....

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commentr/StutterApr 22, 2019
1 points

Stuttering while talking about complex topics and new people could mean your're anxious or unsure about what you're going to say. This can cause stress/anxiety which I think are big factors in most...

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Stress & Fight/FlightAnxiety & Social JudgmentAvoidance & Substitution